We share this account so I have to delte this before she see it. But.. She totally controls me like on this account she like dont make any other account thats your own, we have to share. I read the questions she asked and she is totally horny. Like She said we should have sex one day since were freinds..thats just werid. We went bathing suit shopping and she said I have a nice body and she loves me... weird again. She like acts like were dating, she'll act like the man. I'm straight but she is confusing me on what she is. Should I end our freindship. She has a boyfriend who she has dated for like 3 years and they are always having sex but then she'll talk dirty to me when hes not with her.,, do you think like she is still horny so she does that or is she attracted to me? I'm confused
Always, Bella!
2007-01-18 02:04:49 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Well she didn't start being like this till she had the guys she is with!! Thanks everyone I'm going to delte this!!
2007-01-18 02:11:39 · update #1
THANK YOU EVERYONE!!!!!!!
I delteing this because she may see it and probbly get madd!!
Thanks you so much!!!
<33 Bella!!
2007-01-18 02:23:07 · update #2
Hi Bella,
Never let anyone control you. Your friend sounds a little confused herself. She also sounds controlling.
I would be honest with her, tell her how it makes you feel when she says those things to you.
Open your own account. Don't end your friendship just yet. Talk with her first and just see what she says. It sounds as if she might be bi and if that's alright with her boyfriend and you and it works out OK then its fine. But if she hasn't discussed it with him then it's not alright. She does sound as if she's attracted to you. If that isn't OK with you-I'd ask her about it the next time she does something. Honesty is always best.
Best of luck to you and take a moment to just sit take a deep breath or two and think about things a little bit
2007-01-18 02:21:12 · answer #1 · answered by Dr. Jan 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it seems to me like your best friend might be a lesbian or at least bi (more lesbian than anything else) since you say she has a boyfriend but having a boyfriend doesnt make her straight just means that she might not want people to know and has a boyfriend as just an excuse and when it comes to ending the friendship is up to you just talk to her and tell her that what she is doing makes uncomfortable and to tell you what is going.... and if dont feel comfortable around her is best that you to part ways, because by what i have read that you have said it seem s she is really into you....
hope all works out for you.....
2007-01-18 02:15:25 · answer #2 · answered by crazed_gurl28 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think your friend is bi-sexual and sounds like she has a crush on you. I wouldn't end the friendship but, I would tell her that you feel uncomfortable with her hitting on you like that and ask her to stop. If she refuses to respect your request and keeps doing it then, maybe consider ending the friendship. It could be that she just thinks that you are pretty and that is her way of complimenting you. If she is a good friend then, it should be easy talking with her about it. It would definetely make me feel uncomfortable if I had a friend that did this but, I would make it very clear that I am not that way and want her to stop. Just tell her if she wants to be that way that's fine but, you just don't want her to try to include you in on it and she should respect you for that.
2007-01-18 02:19:50 · answer #3 · answered by airtightreality 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hi, I know a girl just like that. She is always trying to get with my friend. I personaly blieve that she is bi and she wants you. I don't think you have to end your friendship with her yet. I think you should first have a talk about this. Tell her your concerns. If she is your best friend you should at least try to come to an understanding. If she doesn't respect what you have to say then she is not a good firend and you should try to move on. Let her know she makes you uncomfatable. She should understand.
2007-01-18 02:11:36 · answer #4 · answered by sdeb7381 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This girl is clearly confused about her sexuality and is so highly sexed she will have a go at anything male or female. Just tell her that you are not interested in her sexually and it makes you uncomfortable and if she doesn't pack it in then you will end the friendship. If she values your friendship then she will try and curb it. I am guessing though that at first you found it a little flattering as you have let it go on to this point...
2007-01-18 02:10:07 · answer #5 · answered by Bagpuss 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
SOunds like your friend might be Bi rather than ending the friendship why don't you try talking to her tell her she is making you uncomfortable and can she stop it. It will be difficult to bring this subject up but once you have both talked about it and your feelings im sure you will both feel much better. Good luck
2007-01-18 02:08:50 · answer #6 · answered by Missbutterfly:-) 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sometimes girls do that... I have a friend who is like that. She might just not know the line between offensive and joking. Maybe you should talk to her about it.
Except my friend doesn't control me I'd never allow that. You should stand up for yourself and do whatever you want. Some people are just bossy, doesn't mean she thinks your her lover.
2007-01-18 02:08:55 · answer #7 · answered by * 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
well i think she likes you and from what you say... her bf's just a love buddy ( F buddy really.. ) and she kinda wants you.. and if you've been friends for long enough you should atleast try to enjoy her and if you don't.. just tell her to stop.. she may just have a fetish for you or something and 1 time's enough for her.. just be calm about it and if you don't feel comfortable tell her
2007-01-18 02:16:54 · answer #8 · answered by Blake K 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just talk to her ask her wahts going on and tell her that she makes u feel uncortable with her dirty comments. see what happens and if she continues then do what u feel is right. good luck.
2007-01-18 02:09:21 · answer #9 · answered by Blondie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ahhh, sounds like she wants you and bad, you better cut that off before she goes pyscho on you, that is obssesive and possesive behavior, you need to cut that clean and dry, do you have bf? she wants her cake and eat it to, unless your bi or thinking about being bi your better off without someone trying to control you like that, it will only lead to conflict
2007-01-18 02:08:53 · answer #10 · answered by uptownsgurl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋