for different reasons we will not be a couple anymore.Anyway why is it ONLY while we are making love he feels that he has to let me know that we could be so happy together,he wish we could work things out,he wishes I would let him take care of me..etc?? He never speaks about this while we are talking face to face only while we are making love....is he scared to tell me how he feels during normal circumstances.He also wants to know why after 4 years why I stopped fighting for his love.I have been through a lot of drama with this man.... its obvious that we are still sexually attracted to each other but relationship wise we cannot be.
2007-01-18 01:55:04 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I would continue things as is. Just let it be a sex thing and nothing more.
2007-01-18 02:01:51 · answer #1 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Loving the right person at the wrong time, having the wrong person when the time is right, and finding out you love someone right after that person walks out of your life... And sometimes, you think you're already over a person, But when you see them smile at you, you'll suddenly realize that you're just pretending to be over them just to ease the pain of knowing that they will never be yours again... For some, they think that letting go is one way of expressing how much you love the person... In my opinion, some are afraid to see the one they love being held by someone else... Most relationships tend to fail not because the absence of love - love is always present. It's just that one was being loved too much and the other was being loved too little... As we all know the heart is the center of the body but it beats on the left. Maybe that's the reason why the heart is not always right... Most often, we fall in love with the person we think we love but to only discover that for them, we are just for past times, while the one who truly loves us remains either a friend or a stranger... So here's a piece of advice: Let go when you're hurting too much. Give up when love isn't enough, and move on when things are not like before... For sure, there is someone out there who will love you even more...
2007-01-18 10:02:13 · answer #2 · answered by eeekkk 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Obviously other than the sexual side of it you guys just aren’t a good couple in his eyes. And the reason he may say those things only during sex is because he is getting what he wants from you. You are basically giving him his cake and letting him eat it too. Why would he want to be in a relationship with you when he is getting exactly what he wants for nothing?
2007-01-18 10:06:21 · answer #3 · answered by prettyblueeyes101010 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sorry to say this but the only reason he says that is because he wants to have sex with you whenever he wants it and since your easy well that's why. Next time tell him no and see what happens. You won't see him again. But that's why he only says it so that to make you think that he really loves you and have your guard down, so whenever he wants some he knows where to go some. SO cut him off and move on because all you are to him is an easy piece of tail.
2007-01-18 10:01:18 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think this is now a comfort thing for the 2 of you and being where you have been before is easy. If you are not willing to make a go of it only for s** then you are making your life far too difficult. Do yourself a favour and find someone who wants to be with you all the time not just whisper sweet nothings to you when you are in the sack.
2007-01-18 09:59:04 · answer #5 · answered by Bagpuss 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If your not for a involved relationship and just want to 'bang' each other then go for it.
He may not be ready for a serious relationship and you are. A question you will have to ask him but ask him after a passionate moment between the sheets. You may not get a honest answer in the glow of 'after sex' talk but you'll get a answer.
2007-01-18 10:00:49 · answer #6 · answered by Magicman 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Why do you settle for this? You are worth more than that as a person and I am sure you have a lot to offer other than sex, So tell him good bye and try to"""find some one that will appreciate you"""IN""bed as well as out of bed.
2007-01-18 09:59:50 · answer #7 · answered by Gypsy Gal 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
he is just using you. Why isn't HE fighting for YOUR love.
cut him lose. see what happens. If he really wanted you he would be fighting for you. but now he can have sex with you without any commitment. what if you stopped? would he still be around? would he fight for you then? what other girl is gonna give it to him without the commitment? think about it. he only says it wen you are "making love"? he wants to keep you coming back. that is why he only says it then.
2007-01-18 10:01:37 · answer #8 · answered by rmlesperance 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
While "making love" he is reaching a level of intimacy with you that he does not get with you face to face. I guess he then feels the need to express himself as he feels very close to you then.
2007-01-18 09:59:07 · answer #9 · answered by Dally 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
well how do u call what u r doing? there is no name for this, he is ur ex, u sleeping with him, but u don't want to be his gf in the future. men lie all the time to get what they want. he is not serious about u and i think u should stop all physical contact with him.
2007-01-18 10:04:36 · answer #10 · answered by ivelisse 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋