I'm thinking of giving my new girlfriend a ring that had sentimental value to another girl, is that wrong?

Question

I have a ring that I bought for my fiance 3 days ago, and had I love you inscribed inside the band. She broke it off after receiving the ring, and I took the ring away from her and left. I now have another girlfriend that I love so much. Can I give her (my new girlfriend) this ring and ask her to marry me instead? Would that be wrong?

Answer 1

you are with another woman 3 days after buying your fiance a ring and you are in love with this other woman....you are messed up...no you should not give her another womans ring...get your head on straight before you propose to anyone else....good luck

Answer 2

I don't think that this is a good plan because if girlfriend #2 finds out she'll be Pissed believe me if it was me and I found out that the ring was originally for someone else I would be less than impressed this could be enough to make you ex-boyfriend not fiance. Mot to mention but that ring is bad luck it didn't work the first time it has some serious bad Juju man pawn it off and but her a new one going with the old one doesn't bode well for anyone especially you if she finds out it will make her feel like she isn't good enough or doesn't deserve a ring meant specially for her. And if you only broke-up with someone you were going to marry 3 days ago do you really think that you should be proposing to a girl that quickly that's just going to spell out needy and desperate to the new girl freak her out and she'll be running for the hills.

Answer 3

Um, Like...No-ooo!
Unless it was her Great Grandmother's highly cherished antique ring and the girl died at the height of an excellent relationship and left it to you, there's no way this is not just tacky, cheap and insensitive, and that scenario is a stretch.

Passing this ring on will also pass along the bad energy from the previous relationship.

You broke up with your fiance three days ago, and your ready to get re-engaged? "Hi, I have this spare ring laying around, wanna be engaged?"

See if the jeweler will still take it back. Maybe you could sell it, or have the stone made into a piece of jewelry for yourself.

Don't give a girl a used ring. Do you want leftovers?

Answer 4

I only have three words for you...DON"T DO IT!!! That is so wrong. If she would ever find that out she would be pissed. I know that I would. My fiance and I had broken up for a couple of months 2 summers ago and when we got back together we stayed just dating like we didn't just act like everything was ok and jump right back into the engagement. He had to buy me a brand new ring and he had to propose all over again. Because to me the first ring that he had given me symbolized failure and broken promises. I didn't want it. So he did and I got a new ring. So basically I am the same girl and I didn't even want my old ring, you want to give a different girl someone elses old ring. I think that it is wrong and please don't do it.

Answer 5

Yea it would be wrong. You should have returned the ring after the relationship broke apart with your exgirlfriend. But it is better safe than sorry to just return the ring or just buy this new girlfriend her own because it is supposed to mean something special. And you having bought it for another girl isn’t that special. And if she were to ever find out the truth you would be buying a new ring anyway if she didn’t leave you all together.

Answer 6

You could probably have the inscription sanded away. You could also take it to the jewler you bought it from and see if they will make a trade or give you money towards a new ring if you feel strange geiving another girl the ring. It will be in the back of your mind for the rest of you life, everytime you look at it. See the jewler and see what he says. After that, make a decision. Rings are not cheap. I just got engaged. Another option is making the center stone larger....just some ideas.

Answer 7

First of all, you do not love her after three days. Especially three days after you were in love with someone else. Doesn't happen that fast, so you need to realize first that you are moving way too fast. Which may be why you lost the first girl by the way. Secondly, do not ever recycle a gift. It really is thoughtless. You can always sell the first ring and use that money to purchase a new one, but it should be purchased just for her. Again, take a breather and don't propose to anyone after 3 days! Please!

Answer 8

That could blow up in your face. If you're giving it to her because she's special to you and you want to give her something special, I suggest getting another ring. Can you exchange it or sell it back? Getting her a ring that's for her is a better way to tell her she's special. Giving her a ring you bought for someone else, even though the thought is right, might send the wrong message.

Answer 9

I do not think you should give the ring to the new girl. Sell it on ebay or something. If she ever found out that you had that ring inscribed for someone else, she will be hurt that it was passed on to her...

Answer 10

i guess no one seems to question how after 3 days you already have another girl to marry...so this is either a bogus question or you are a cheating jerk!!

sell the ring and get the new g/f a new ring....if a girl bought something for one guy and after breaking up gave it to you the new guy you would be pissed if you found out.

Answer 11

That would be extremely wrong! That ring was meant for someone else and has completely different memories and emotions attatched to it. A different ring will make the difference and you'll feel much better about it. My boyfriend still has the ring intended for his ex-fiance' and he has told me that if he were to propose to me, he would take that ring back and exchange it for mine. I would never accept his ex's ring because it was never intended for me. It was intended for another girl with whom he had different feelings for and different emotions toward. Get another ring, or at least exchange it!