valentines is comin up...and i wanna get the guy i like somefin real expensive...he seems like he realli wanted it...coz he kept lookin at it when we were out....but we r not even a couple yet..would doin this be bad? coz im a gal...and gettin somefin for a guy i care bout even tho we r not anything yet bad? im not sure if he even cares that much bout me
2007-01-18 01:39:04 · 14 answers · asked by Forever happy 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Do it,,that would b nice.
2007-01-18 01:42:09 · answer #1 · answered by fajita 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you have plans of becoming a couple one day, I wouldn't do it for the simple fact that it might become something he expects all the time. And when he feels like you don't provide those 'expensive' things anymore then he'll feel like you don't care about him anymore.
I would only do it if you have the money to continue treating him with nice gifts.
If you only are friends, then why not. If you care for your friend that much, I don't see a problem with that. I just warn you. As I stated before, if you want him and you to become an item then I would hold off on this type of present.
2007-01-18 09:47:43 · answer #2 · answered by LoLo B 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This has nothing to do with dominance or your being a female. If you don't know his feelings for you, do you really want to BUY his emotions? If you're not a couple yet, I would suggest doing something rather than buying something for Valentine's Day. When you're actually a couple...then think about this.
2007-01-18 09:44:22 · answer #3 · answered by Kalypso 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How would you feel if you gave it to him and you still never became a couple? If you would do it for him anyway, then go ahead. But if you're hoping for something more from this, you're doing it for the wrong reasons.
2007-01-18 09:44:58 · answer #4 · answered by vlalto 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get some spelling lessons, and impress him with your new found ability to use the English language. That would impress me more than any material gift.
2007-01-18 09:44:51 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well this could be a way to show him that you really care about him......but dont be caught on material things by thinking you will win someone over by getting them thngs, it may work for awhile but is it true love? nah
2007-01-18 09:47:58 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
To be dominant, you must spell correctly. Proper English helps.
2007-01-18 09:47:18 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you want to be dominant, make him beg for it.
Otherwise, he could take advantage of you genuine generous gesture.
2007-01-18 09:50:04 · answer #8 · answered by Ed 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sure, no harm in it, and guys like the honest approach.
2007-01-18 09:47:34 · answer #9 · answered by Brian 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no it's not a bad thing, it shows the guy that u know something about him and u care about him alot, especially if it is expensive.
2007-01-18 09:42:07 · answer #10 · answered by shorty_baby_girl15 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
If you are not a couple no.
If you are a couple then yes go ahead and buy it
2007-01-18 09:42:22 · answer #11 · answered by Mike 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋