I am going for my masters degree so the working situation together is not permanent. Lately i feel aggitated by him and we have been in a lull. What can I do to find the happiness and joy again. We have been friends for 3 years dating for one year.
2007-01-18 01:38:37 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
u r together 2 much..this will do ur relationship a power of good.
2007-01-18 01:43:48 · answer #1 · answered by fajita 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You may have gotten very comfortable with him, and working with him is just making it too comfortable so you can get easily aggravated at little things. Talk, take a step back, after work-have some of your 'own' time and then make a date for dinner or something later that night, try that for a week or so and see if that helps improve both of your moods and your lull. Good luck =)
2007-01-18 09:55:05 · answer #2 · answered by mandaburch 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you probably are just spending too much time together. i live with my significant other and work near him so we have lunhc together all the time.....the best thing for you to do is create some autonomy in your relationship. haven't you ever heard of the phrase "absence makes the heart grow fonder?" its true! go out with your friends, do your own thing and let him do his...this time apart will help you to create more things to talk about, and more independent lives instead of such togetherness...it could also create the desire to be back around each other. a little time apart goes a long way...trust me.
good luck.
2007-01-18 09:45:29 · answer #3 · answered by lola 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him you need to spice things up as you never want things to get stagnant. Spicing up can be anything from scheduling date night, movie nights, romantic evenings together, etc
2007-01-18 09:43:52 · answer #4 · answered by Mike 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋