Ive been with my boyfriend for about a year and a half. I still find him super sexy, but I just dont feel like having sex. Its great that hes persistant, but I just dont get as turned on as i used to. Is there a pill or something to get me horny?
2007-01-18 01:38:24 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
First off, you have to decide whether you're going to conform to his needs, or whether you'll make him conform to yours. It's the boyfriend's responsibility to at least WILLINGLY OFFER to sacrifice his own wants in order to satisfy yours. If you don't feel like having sex, he should let up on the throttle and not be so persistent.
If you ABSOLUTELY feel like you should be the one to conform to him, then it's all a mental struggle. No pill, no magazine, no adult film, no sex story will make you "horny" unless you have the proper mindset. You have to WANT to feel that way; that's how these pornographic and sex-related resources work. Your best bet is to confront him (if you haven't already) and just honestly tell him how you feel. You'll have an easier time trying to resolve the crisis if your boyfriend knows the honest truth, rather than if you keep it bottled up inside you. Good luck.
2007-01-18 01:49:52 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well maybe you need to spice it up a bit....try some new positions, or maybe you could talk about what you like about his performance the last time you had sex. also, you coud put on Sade. anything of her's is wonderful to make love to. it might even be that you just aren't sexually attracted to your boyfriend anymore. tell him how you are feeling, even if you think it might hurt his feelings, but believe me he'll appreciate that you were upfront with him, instead of lying to him, and pretending, you know what I mean? maybe the two of you can find something that'll spark up your engine and getting it going again. good luck!
2007-01-18 01:58:52 · answer #2 · answered by tweetybird37406 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't worry about it. Couples go thru phases. But i must admit the sexual relationship is always hottest in the first 6 months.
2007-01-18 02:02:05 · answer #3 · answered by wgbh67 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get some wet and juciy porn watch it while you guys are in the act. play with yourself in front of him. take it some place risky like a public bathroom stall it adds a little excitement. I like to watch his porn while hes at work and by the time he's home I can't get off him! Good luck!
2007-01-18 01:52:46 · answer #4 · answered by suprsarah 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Send him to creative and leadership school,or lock yourself in a insulated room and worship the God of glory for 2 hours or more and the Devil will leave And the pleasure of God will return for him,and the tendency to fornicate will flee.
2007-01-18 01:48:44 · answer #5 · answered by mouth2spklife777 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
doesn't he (eat) well ????
2007-01-18 01:51:51 · answer #6 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋