why your going to the military? An accept it. My mom is no angry. But disturbed that after college I want to go to the military. What did you say your parents to accept your future in the military? Thanks.
2007-01-18 01:31:50 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Politics & Government ➔ Military
I'm an only child. So my mom never wants me hurt. Also she thinks that she will never see me again. So I will miss out on all the family events. But I beleive that going into the military will do a couple of things. Help me learn more about what I'm majoring in. An also it will help me enhance some skills. Examples like confidence, working with a team, communication, and etc.. . Also it will let me see the world. An I believe I will be home sometimes. An I will be safe. This is the U.S. Military.
2007-01-18 01:42:15 · update #1
I went in anyway. They didn't like it but they support me no matter what decision I make. It was the best decision I ever made.
2007-01-18 01:40:57 · answer #1 · answered by Land Warrior 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I did not have this problem. Going into the military is a hard decision for you to have made. I do understand that your Mom is concerned about your well being. Perhaps, advise her that by finishing college first and entering the military, that you will enter as an officer at a higher rate of pay and such. Maybe this will help her.
I wish you the best and thank you for serving this wonderful Country.
2007-01-18 09:36:55 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Being in the military is an honorable venture for a person to take. When I joined the military my parents were proud of me and the sacrifice that I was about to make. I did serve in 3 war zones during my time in the military. When I go home to family visits I am treated as the hero. I was the only person in my generation that served in the military. The only one that was willing to shed blood to protect our way of life. It is a very honorable thing for you to do. Even if your parents do not support you I do!!!
2007-01-18 10:01:17 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
You'll hear many reasons, both for and against, concerning your decision to join the service. I spent 26 years (enlisted) and proudly both of my sons are currently in the service. (One enlisted, one officer). It's not for everyone. Believe it when I say the profession-at-arms is like a calling; similar to a doctor or clergyman.
It can't really be explained. I was proud to be a member of such a professional group. Your reasons are your own. Parents are worried about your safety. That's understandable.
No one joins the service without going through some changes. Mostly, young folks grow up, mature, see how full life really is, develop professionalism and pride in themselves. And yes, some even develop a strong sense of patriotism. These are just a few of the things that occur.
But understandably some folks can't adjust, they resent authority, dislike structure, and seek something else in life. However, in your case explain your thoughts and I'm sure your parents will respect your decision, even though they will still worry over your safety.
Good luck and thanks. Thank you for fullfilling a sense of citizenry, in my opinion.
2007-01-18 09:49:53 · answer #4 · answered by stretch 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I believe when you take any steps in life those who love you will try to protect you. Being in the military has caused a bit of turmoil in my family.
My mom grew to the idea. To this day she still doesn't like it. It's a hard, life-changing course your life will take.
Be confident in your decision. Don't have any regrets. Your parents love you and will come to understand.
PS. Being enlisted is the greatest thing in the world. I love being a Non Commisioned Officer. Getting to work with the troops is the most rewarding thing. I love being trainer, mentor and role model.
2007-01-18 11:06:03 · answer #5 · answered by Gilla 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It's natural for parents to feel worried about their child. I am middle of three and my mom worries for me. My older brother and father are no longer in the military but doesn't worry about them except she gets mad when my brother says he's going to volunteer to go over to Iraq. My dad thought it was okay for me but my mom said if I really want to be in the military, don't half *** my work and cry if I want out etc... Haven't yet. I think she'll always be worried for you but she might change her mind once she see's you in uniform and see how well you have changed.
2007-01-18 11:16:08 · answer #6 · answered by Jessica 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Okay, well if you are thinking of joining after college I would hope that you are an adult and can make your own decisions. You have to decide for yourself what you want to do, hopefully your mom will accept and support your decision.
2007-01-18 12:25:57 · answer #7 · answered by John B 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
As an adult you make my own decisions. You need to tell them that they just have to trust that they raised you well enough to make good sound decisions that effect you. They need to have trust in their parenting and let go and let you be the independent thinking adult that you are. After you become an adult they need to understand that all they can do is give you advise. Whether you take it or not is up to you.
2007-01-18 09:44:05 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you are joining because you want to serve your country & be a part of something that is bigger than you, it should help you convince them that it is a good choice. If you are joining for the pay, the education, or the benefits only, you should probably not join.
2007-01-18 10:19:54 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
cant help you there. i have to go to the army, like it or not, or at least do national service. thats how it is where i live.
just tell them that ur a big boy and you can decide that you want to serve your country in one of the best ways there are.
2007-01-18 09:41:42 · answer #10 · answered by Morya tal i 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋