Survey: would you keep your virginity until married?

Question

... you gender, and reason(optional) please

Hi: thanks to you all who replied, very interesting. I thought that I'll list out the summary :
FemaleYesesNosToo LatesTotal
3 188 29
MaleYesesNosToo Lates
39214

try again:
Female| Yeses | Nos | Too Lates | Total
3 18 8 29
Male |Yeses |Nos | Too Lates
3 9 2 14

Answer 1

no what if they r crap in bed and u will b stuck with them

female.

Answer 2

Female, I didn't have the option to wait until I was married. Keep in mind I'm still not married but I have two grown sons though. I was molested by a close family member when I was 11 years old. Then later after I got of the Army, I was raped at the age of 22. So I if could that would be the one thing I would want back again, a choice with my virginity. That probably would make me a more of a happier person.
When something or someone destroys something so beautiful and pure, it's hard to get that innocence back. To honest really you can't. If I was you I would definitely wait. Don't get wrong I'm happy with my life. Those obstacles in my past made me a very strong person individually.

Answer 3

I'm a guy... and I tried... age is a determining factor... if I was 15 then yes...If I was 40 then no. Ultimately... the "gift" is a precious one however I don't think a vow or piece of paper should determine the timetable for when you present this "gift" if your madly deeply in love and feel it's right I wouldn't hold back... besides "it" could be a determining factor on whether the other person is THE one for you.

Answer 4

Female....no I would not (if I could go back anyway!)...you need to know if you are compaltible in the sack *before* you spend thie rest of your life with someone. This is supposed to be the last person you sleep with, ever! So...they have to be a good one! Sexual compatibility is important in a relationship these days. We're not just using sex as a utility to breed more workers for the farm any more!

Answer 5

I'm female and NO, my boyfriend and I are planning to have sex.
I think that, crudely, you have to get good at sex before you get married... and I think if you wait for marriage to have sex marriage becomes all about sex... I think it's actually much more romantic for a guy to say yes, I know I can have you anytime I like, but I want more, I want to spend my life with you than for him to say I'm horny so let's get married.
Plus I have a high sexual drive :P what can I say? I think it's just another part of growing up.

Answer 6

Im not proud to say that I lost my virginity before getting married. I now wish I would have waited, instead of going with the crowd to be popular. Yet, I cannot blame it on other people. I had the choice, and I wish I would have waited.

Answer 7

Female- if i could do it all over i would. If you love the person thenu should not be affraid of what they are like in bed. They will learn. and if u urself are a virgin too then that better for the both of you. U could learn all the moves on ur own..

Answer 8

Virginity is not like a fine wine that is more valuable with age. I got rid of it as soon as I could. I also do my best to make sure it does not come back. I have never had trouble being faithful to a partner that had a sex drive at least equal to mine.

46, M.

Answer 9

well this is your decision..but not mine..i mean i never did it before..but im sure i will do it if i will meet the right guy...whatz the difference if you do it with your husband or boyfriend?being married doesnt mean ..loving a person for the rest of your life..if you dont get with him someday..you will break up..and then you still slept with himm..so whats the differenc now?thatzs totally unnecessary..the impotent thing is that you will have sex with a normal age..and not with 12 and with the guy you really like...

Answer 10

I am a female. Andd no way I would keep virginity till marriage. Life is too short to get hung up on stupid morals. Further having sexx is just another body function. There is no reason for se_x and marriage to be related.

Answer 11

Male: in reality only a few meet their soulmatre when they first get sexaul in mid teens... what are the rest supposed to do? stay lonley devoid of all affect whilst mates have a great time?

No not uless we are talking about getting married at 16 and thats a bad idea in most cases in itself.

When youb have sex you mature, in sexaul relationships you mature, you become realistic, you understand the opposite sex not build up all sorts or incorrect ideas. You develop understanding in terms of relationships and pulling and meeting people which may help you chat up a fututre love of you life in the future.

Also its fairly vital you have sex whilst still living at home as they are many emotionals and issues to deal with that good parents need to be there fore you as it does not mean you are grown up... you still have a long way to go.


And many companies wont let you date so first times later opens you up to manipulation and abuse or loss of job and all sorts when you are on your own.

So its a case of sexual development as you get older in or out of marriage.

Plus people do different things sexaully at different ages...

ie how many 30 year olds do you see making out in cinemas or back seats of cars in lovers lanes. Or playing spin the bottle etc.

Those who stay virgins may well not be able to form realtioships as be like a junior school level surrounded by uni graduates who can do a professional job so can't fit in or relate and now grown up no support or allowances for being clueless.



LET BE PUT THIS ANOTHER WAY.

ALL THE MEN WHO SPEND LIVES IN POLE DANCE BARS WHO CAN'T GET LAID ANYWHERE OTHER THEN IN THAILAND WTH PROSTITUTES ARE THE ONES WHO WERE CONVINCED NOT TO LOOSE THEIR VIRGINITY IN TEENS, AND THE ONES WHO ARE ALL LONELY TRYING TO PULL GIRLS 10 OR MORE YEARS YOUNGER AS THOSE ARE THE ONLY ONES WHO CAN REALTE TO THEM AT THE SAME ROOKIE LEVEL AS THEY GIRLS THEIR AGE HAVE NO TIME FOR VUIGIN, NEEDY LOOSERS WHO ARE CLUELES IN BED.


Only other teenagers are at the same level

Likewise all these lonly girls tring for internet dates or ivf as having to get babies on own living with a cat age 38 are also these virgin girls .


Whilst others get fed up missing out and just get laid but often without condoms so get knocked up as clueless.