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what gives them the right to cheat. it should be the bored and lonely housewife who cheats

2007-01-18 01:13:28 · 46 answers · asked by xblue-printx 2 in Family & Relationships Singles & Dating

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u cant stop someone from cheating..if they r going 2 do it then they will...whether they get lots of sex..attention or not.

2007-01-18 01:18:44 · answer #1 · answered by fajita 7 · 0 2

I don't think that there is much you can do if he's going to cheat he's going to cheat. Guys always say that as long as a girl give them everything they want they will never cheat but you know what that is not true i can't say all guys because that wouldn't be right but most of the guys will do anything that walks so as long as your being a good house wife and a good lover to where you can meet all of your mans needs, and always get dressed up for him like if you were still boyfriend and girlfriend i think that always keeps things going good. And after you know your doing all of that don't worry anymore and if your husband does cheat it just means he doesn't deserve you and you can do much better than that. you only live once so why would you give the best of you to someone who doesn't deverve it? Don't worry if he's not the one believe me there is someone who is waiting to make you happy in life

2007-01-18 01:58:00 · answer #2 · answered by short moma 1 · 0 1

You cannot STOP your husband from cheating....its uncontrollable. They have no right to cheat and there is no excuse for it, but some men are cowards and still do. You just have to have TRUST and COMPLETE honesty in your marriage/relationship no matter what. If you have those two things you will get a long way. If he has the urge to cheat he will know that he can come to you and tell you before he takes action, and no matter how hurtful it may be to you, at least he is being honest. If you can handle the truth no matter how bad it may hurt.....this is the way to go.

2007-01-18 01:22:10 · answer #3 · answered by michelles_sfa 2 · 0 1

You can't stop him from cheating. Remember this, it's not about the sex, it's about attention. If you have been married for years before he started to cheat then you can probably repair the damage and the two of you can discover what you have lost. On the other hand, he may be just that self-centered and uncaring. If that's the case you can only choose to accept it or leave him. Confront him with it, ask him to join you in marriage counceling. If he won't it may be time to move on. Best of luck to you.

2007-01-18 01:29:49 · answer #4 · answered by magicman116 7 · 0 1

You can't stop him but you can be attractive and loving so that they don't really want to. But as for the bored and lonely housewife. Why would you be like that. Do a course, get a part time job. Do something with your life

2007-01-18 01:25:08 · answer #5 · answered by traceylill 4 · 0 2

There is no way to stop another person from cheating..... you have to decide if you will settle for the action and continue to be with that person. No one has the right to disregard another person's feelings, as cheating does just that. So it becomes a question rather than an answer..... Do you stay or move on?

2007-01-18 01:22:37 · answer #6 · answered by marara k 1 · 0 1

confident, everybody does deserve a 2d risk yet even risk runs out. you need to be a sturdy female with a backbone female. positioned your foot down and supply him a decision. In marriage you do no longer cover issues. tell him you have got here across info that he's cheating back. Ask him if he needs those different women or you because you will truthfully enable him to be loose if he now no longer needs to be married. tell him that first time became shame on him and the 2d would be shame on you. different than there will be no shame because you will no longer hesitate to divorce his ***. issues have replaced and you now no longer have confidence him. You now no longer experience which you 2 are bestfriends, fanatics, companions. tell him to compliment or you will make it for him. you like him and your newborn even though it seems he would not experience an identical way. tell him you like your self too.

2016-12-12 14:16:01 · answer #7 · answered by ? 4 · 0 0

Men cheat for different reasons. Is he able to sit down with you and have an honest conversation in this regard?

If he was a serial cheater who gave no regard for my welfare I would be inclined to divorce him. However you may have children and much invested in this man. It may be worth your time and energy to find out why.

Has it been a one off. Have you drifted apart and he may be feeling unloved or ???? Men are humans with emotions despite what we may prefer to think. Can this be worked through?

He may be a sex addict and need help. Does he love you? Only you know in your heart what the best decision is to make.

I personally would be very concerned about AIDS and my own personal health and well being. Good luck.

2007-01-18 06:09:42 · answer #8 · answered by Angie K 1 · 0 1

If he is cheating, you need to divorce his sorry *ss. You dont deserve that and unless its a turn on for you, then kick him to the curb. Find someone who will respect you girl. Get rid of him and let him see just how green the grass is without ya. BTW....he wont stop unless you put a stop to it. If you havent talked to him about it, then do that. See what the root of the problem is. If you can resolve it, then great. If you see its a losing battle, then move on and let him do his thang. Find you a GOOD man that will have enough respect for you that he wont do that. Nobody deserves it. Good luck.

2007-01-18 01:22:59 · answer #9 · answered by Truth Teller 5 · 0 1

They dont have to right to cheat and u sudnt have to stop him he just sudnt do it in the first place. If ever he does then that sud b it and just leave him find sum1 who will treat u right and not disrespect u like that. If ur husband really loves u then he wont cheat thats all u gta think about. xx

2007-01-18 01:32:29 · answer #10 · answered by Kimmy xx 3 · 0 1

It goes for both. Be honest about all things with each other and discuss all problems especially those to do with sex. Men frequently say that their partner isn't interested women say that their partner isn't interested. The fact is both are bored with the same ritual that ends in sleep. This is where talking will help and then neither will stray.

2007-01-18 01:26:53 · answer #11 · answered by ANF 7 · 0 1

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