well there was this guy who i liked and he liked me back so i asked him out. well the only problem is that he is shy. normally just a little but around me he can hardly seem to talk sometimes. i think hes just nervous because hes never had a gf b4 but its hard to talk to him much when he cant start a conversation himself. i really like him and im not going to break up with him any time soon so dont suggest that. just does anyone have a way of being able to talk to him better or get him to talk more???? advice????????
2007-01-18 01:06:59 · 15 answers · asked by all4chanel203 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Try a less direct approach. Try to identify with him on a variety of other things first. His hobbies, etc. Talk about the light stuff before talking about the heavy stuff. Too much directness might be shutting him down because he doesn't have enough experience to react naturally, and he may be afraid of doing something wrong.
2007-01-18 01:11:46 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
this kind of guys is so honest so u should try to be to careful with them cuz they r very fragile too so i will tell u what to say and what to do with him
try first to make him feel that u r not his GF only and u r his friend too by doing mad things and funny stuff together try to make him feel that anything is going to say is something that u r so interested at try to pull the words from him by giving him a question and wait for the ans and try to make him explain to u
make him talk alto just for practice and trust me u will find him do what u really wants :) hope for u a good nice life
2007-01-18 01:15:44 · answer #2 · answered by Dr.Tee 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
All you can do is be open and honest with him and hope that he'll follow your example. Open honest communication is a key to any successful relationship. He's stressed and it may take some time for him to discover that you are just a person, not some otherworldly "creature" that has blessed him with your presence. keep talking to him...he'll come around
2007-01-18 01:16:47 · answer #3 · answered by alex b 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Find out (by asking him) what his interests are... and ask him questions about them. Find out what he likes to eat, and make him a dinner. People talk about their interests, and their experiences. Ask him if he's ever travelled, and where did he go... what did he like or not like about it. Pretty soon he'll start to feel more comfortable around you. It's not uncommon for a guy to be a little tongue-tied around a girl he likes! :o)
2007-01-18 01:18:39 · answer #4 · answered by JP 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Aww bless, he must be totally bowled over by you so can't seem to speak, I'm afraid it's probably gonna take time, As he gets to know you and feels less conscious he'll be more confident with you and less shy, especially since your his first girlfriend!!.
2007-01-18 01:15:45 · answer #5 · answered by pinkydixie 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
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2016-10-07 08:21:33 · answer #6 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, if you try too hard you will actually make it worse for him. And if he seems more shy around you, go out with him and his pals or in groups.
2007-01-18 01:16:31 · answer #7 · answered by pipi 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Be patient. Try doing something he likes with him. If you find something he wants to talk about, its a start.
Maybe he's just quiet. That makes you uncomfortable. Talk about that.
2007-01-18 01:14:53 · answer #8 · answered by Ed 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-06-20 18:48:26 · answer #9 · answered by Laraine 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i was really shy when i got my first so ill tell u what me and my gf who wre still togeather 4 months did
write notes and pass them to each other
2007-01-18 01:12:18 · answer #10 · answered by bloody illusions 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋