There's a girl i'm interested in and i think she likes me but whenever i invite her out, she changes the date the day before we go out. It's the second time, both times i've asked her was to go out on a friday, but she pushes it to saturday and this time to monday. Can anyone suggest reasons why she does this?
2007-01-18 01:05:00 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
She accepts first, then changes the date i set nearly the day before. Could it also be that 4 days notice is too short?
2007-01-18 01:17:29 · update #1
It could be a fluke of circumstances. Some days are just already taken, but she still wants to go out.
It could also be that she is a control freak. I would say the next time you ask her, and she suggests at the last minute to change it, simply tell her "I'm sorry, but I have things to do tomarrow" If she were to pry and ask "What's so important?" Make it a point to tell her that "My life, that's what's so important," (because truly she has no right to judge what is important or not important, and that's what she's trying to find out...so she can judge it to be LESS important than changing a date at her whim...again control) continue boldly "....do you still want to meet at the set time?"
You really don't want to forward a relationship with someone who's trying to control you. This tactic could be a baby step in that direction.
2007-01-18 01:13:26 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
There may be something going on in her life that is a bit unpredictable. I know that my work schedules and class schedule are constantly changing so sometimes it is hard to pinpoint a time when I can see my boyfriend.
There is always the possibility she is trying to let you down easily that she isn’t interested. So tell her to give you a call when she finds a good time to go out, no pressure. Then don’t wait by the phone.
2007-01-18 09:14:40 · answer #2 · answered by prettyblueeyes101010 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds to me like she doesn't want to date you, I would try one more time, and if it happens again, don't waste your time.
2007-01-18 09:09:06 · answer #3 · answered by Bobbi 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
she just being courteous to you. if a girl likes you ,you manage to ask her out just one or two try . my friend, move on to the next
2007-01-18 15:05:15 · answer #4 · answered by the_road_i_am_on 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
she either dosent want to date u or she is scared. try talking to her about it try to find out y she keeps doing that.
2007-01-18 09:11:33 · answer #5 · answered by yoshi 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋