My boyfriend and i broke up about a week in october and i filed custody for our 2 year old daughter. We are now back together but im not to happy, I want to continue with the custody but he does not want to. He is mad, and i just want to protect myself, He says thats it dumb that i am doing this.. Whats ur opinion !!
2007-01-18 00:49:44 · 15 answers · asked by Hope G 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
I think that you sense that this relationship is not going to last so I would continue with the custody hearing or else you will have to start the filing all over again. You will be able to rest assured knowing that you went back and tried again but I think that once a person realizes a relationship is finished it is hard to reinvest your heart into it again. Good luck I can understand how difficult this is for you.
2007-01-20 11:45:32 · answer #1 · answered by Deirdre O 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is another way you can protect you daughter without going for a full custody battle.
Have a word with your solicitor. If you and your partner are not married you can gain another court order in the smaller courts.
I'm not sure of the name sorry. It means that the you are the sole provider for that child. If your relationship does break down this particular order states that the child remains with you.
The good thing about it is your partner does not need to attend it is between you and your solicitor.
If i do remember the name of the court order i will let you know.
It is called the named parent or something similar to that.
Good Luck
2007-01-18 01:27:10 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You will find it hard to get a court to rule on custody while you are together. The courts are not big on making decisions like this cause things can change in the future that would change their ruling and with you two together there is no real need for a ruling.
2007-01-18 00:53:20 · answer #3 · answered by Richard Bricker 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I really agree with him, I'm sorry to say. It is dumb. If you want to protect yourself, why are you living with him? I'm sorry but I do think you need to get your head on straight. Get some counseling and maybe consider giving custody to your bf until you get your life in order.
2007-01-18 02:05:13 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
you have every right to file for custody. the two of you are not in a stable relationship clearly, because you broke up and now are in an unhappy relationship (you said you weren't happy). you have to do what is best for your child.
2007-01-18 02:28:41 · answer #5 · answered by Lin B 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
first protect your child. there is no better gift than her/him and if you arent careful you could end up in a very bad situation with courts, lawyers, lawyers fees. (which are very very expensive) If you are not happy with this man then leave and show your daughter that she won't need a man either, you can as an independent woman do it on your own !!..You and her will be very happy . Good luck !!
2007-01-18 02:12:27 · answer #6 · answered by confused 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you are together then you will have an issue with the custody thing.....if you are not happy, then why are you together....make up your mind and protect your daughter and her best interests....good luck
2007-01-18 00:52:55 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow, are you screwed up. I don't think anything or anyone can make you happy. I don't blame him for being mad. What are you doing living together if you are not happy? I think you just see him as a meal ticket.
2007-01-18 02:01:19 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
UM i in my opinion love her. Her first unmarried, " hit me infant an extra effective time" got here out even as i became in like seventh grade, and that i assumed she became the best. all and diverse continuously stated that i appear as if her. even as she became somewhat F'ed up I felt so undesirable for her and continuously defended her. i'm somewhat satisfied she's turning each thing round now. :) Love my Brit Brit
2016-10-15 09:50:18 · answer #9 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are back together and you feel a need to "protect" yourself, that seems really wacked. Personally, I don't blame him for not being happy. I would dump you if I was him.
2007-01-18 00:53:19 · answer #10 · answered by morahastits 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋