My partner and I plan to get married this year but dont have much money. As none of our friends or family have had or been to a same-sex wedding we dont know where to start and how to plan a low cost wedding in england?
2007-01-18 00:37:34 · 15 answers · asked by ukprincess83 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Weddings
england hants probley portsmouth
2007-01-18 03:19:01 · update #1
To help you plan a wedding...try www.ezweddingplanner.com it gives you lists and helps you keep track of when to do things. A wedding is a wedding same sex or not. Do what you like...I have not been to england, so can't give you a lot of advice on that part. But the planning is really easy...some say all you need is friends and family.
If it were me:
*Ask relative with biggest house to supply the house
*Ask grandmothers and parents to help make food
*Ask an Uncle to talk pictures
*Ask a brother or cousin to play DJ for the night
*Make easy flower boquet(3 or 4 calli lillies tied in a ribbon)
*I would make three square cakes. cut one cake into a 8 by 8 inch square & frost (bottom) cut second cake 6 by 6 inch square place on top & frost (middle) cut third cake 4 by 4 & frost (top) use a 1 inch ribbon and place at the bottom of each layer on the back use 2 pearl topped push pins (used for pinning on flower) on the back of each ribbon (make sure to fold the cut edge of the
ribbon in so it looks clean cut) then put rose petals or ivy vines around it.
*Ask your sisters or cousins to make easy center peice(if you want) two different sized candles with ribbon around the bottom, and confetti on the table.
*Get a dress - or a pant suit (or skirt) you already have.
*For any bridesmaids, they could use cocktail dresses that they already own or you could have them purchase one all the same(maybe same color, different styles??)
*Have guests bring thers own liquer if you don't want to supply it...or buy a keg of beer and/or one of rootbeer.
If there is something else that I can give you an idea on...just email me!! Have a beautiful wedding, all that matter is you two are together with loving friends and family. Nobody thinks of the decorations...Just as long as there is a party!!
2007-01-22 05:00:56 · answer #1 · answered by Sunshine 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First off,congrats!!! Second when it comes to weddings anything goes. When my husband and I planned our adopted daughter wedding last year we were really strapped for cash and so were the girls. We found a lovley park, rented the chairs and tables from a funeral home and a church. With the wedding and reception outside that really cut alot of cost out. Then the family got together and divided up the food so that all the food was done by our family another huge savings. One of our daughters friends (a baker) made thier cake. We bought simple blue table clothes and asked each member of the bridal party to make a center piece using the wedding colors that reminded them of the girls instead of gifts. We even held a party so that everyone could build thier center pieces and feed off of one anothers ideas. The day was wonderful and the girls said that they couldn't hope for more. You can also look at www.fireyourweddingplanner.com for more money saving ways. We used this website and came up with some great plans.
2007-01-22 12:03:44 · answer #2 · answered by 3Xmom 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why not consider a quick civil ceremony in Portsmouth, then have a reception afterwards with all the friends and family, there are a few gay friendly venues in the city, if one of you or even one of your friends is a student at the uni there, the students union bar has been the site of more than a few wedding receptions.
2007-01-22 22:20:06 · answer #3 · answered by freebird 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A Same sex wedding does not have to be any different to any other wedding. My best friend recently married his partner and they had an amazing day of friends, family, food, drink and most importantly, love. I cried at the ceremony as it was as beautiful, if not more so than any other wedding that i have been to. Their ceremony was simple but touching, in a registry office and after we all went to a buffet lunch at a little hotel restaurant hired for the occassion. Two bottles of wine were on each table, along with water and soft drinks. Any other alcohol had to be bought at the bar. Honestly, the biggest expense at weddings these days is the food and alcohol but people should be there to share in your joy. Not get P****D at your expense! Good luck and I wish you all the best for the future.
2007-01-18 00:55:09 · answer #4 · answered by F34 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Have you heard of the website www.pinkweddings.biz ?
They have a venue finding service which has a list of venues in England which has been given their approval.
There aren't any listed in Portsmouth, however there are a few in Hampshire - don't be afraid to travel a little to get the right venue - it's a beautiful, unforgettable day so make the most of it!
Audleys Wood in Basingstoke is stunning. Also look on the national trust website as they have over 40 venues in the UK
2007-01-21 05:13:59 · answer #5 · answered by the cat 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Most wedding start with a list and it becomes a nightmare eventually people cross off the things they can't have or go into debt for them....... Marriage is a union of Love ......
start with who you are what YOU BOTH want to look like on the photographs get MORE THAN one friend to take them on digital cameras you will get some great pics. Make your own invites on a computer and ask your families and closest to bring a plate of something to eat and share, there is always one who will bake a cake.
Buy some good champagne for a very special toast to a long and happy lifetime together. (Tesco ::hire glasses cheap)
In 20 years you will have fond memories of the day and the pics...
Have a great day------make it yours
2007-01-23 08:10:12 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Network with friends and family. see what they can offer (chefs can always cater, someone you now can sing.do music, and moms always want to get involved) see if anyone has a property you can use and look into hiring a minister for the event. Not that expensive. I'd offer to do it for you as I am ordained, but I in the midst of finding out how I register in the UK to do ceremonies. Have a think where you can cut costs and do an outside summer wedding. I planned a same sex marriage for my two friends back home and between us all came up with an amazing day all for under $3000 (£1500) so it is possible.
All the best.
feel free email me if you want to know anything else or any more tips.
2007-01-18 00:48:28 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 2⤋
i suggest getting a wedding magazine they have checklists in. The best thing to do is see if anyone has a hidden talent so they can pitch in i.e card making(invitations) or cake maker etc see if someone is good with a camera. Just because its same sex doesnt mean it has to be a whole lot different unless you want it to be.
2007-01-18 21:17:50 · answer #8 · answered by RACHEL FEV 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Check Out Oriental Trading Company, they have some nice things for a low price. I have bought several items from them in the past and I haven't been disappointed yet!
Also check out DIY, I was surprised to see that they have some helpful ideas too!
Good Luck!
2007-01-25 07:04:09 · answer #9 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try this website for same sex weddings. It has loads of ideas, and all the wedding suppliers listed are gay friendly.
2007-01-23 18:00:07 · answer #10 · answered by Ruby D 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋