Whenever I have a boyfriend they always tell me I'm the best and how great I am and how sweet I am. They always say they've never been with a girl like me and blah blah blah. So if that is true then how come they never stay and I am always finding myself single. Men and women's opinions welcome.
2007-01-18 00:08:13 · 23 answers · asked by babydj1803 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Sorry, I am 22 and most guys I date are in their 30's. And they say this stuff before we have sex, I make them wait until I am ready so I don't know why they would lie and say stuff like that. I just don't understand men, but who does??
2007-01-18 00:18:54 · update #1
well either you are choosing the wrong guys, they tell you those things until they get what they want and then they don't want it anymore, your true personality comes out after a time, there are lots of reasons that this could be happening to you....take some time to look back on your "relationships" and see if you can't make some changes...keep trying...good luck
2007-01-18 00:13:25 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 2⤋
You shouldn't worry too much about this as it's probably a more common situation then you think. The long term relationship's I've been in kind of had the same feel to where you think both people are perfect/everything's great and perfect. And then, all of a sudden, it's over. The relationship success rate in this world seems to be low and a hit or miss situation - so many divorces, cheatings, and simply growing apart and falling out of love. I feel the same way when I'm in one -- I feel like I'm the perfect guy for this girl and somehow or another it finds a way not to work out after a long period of time. I'm sure you are very nice and deserve better from these guys. Just remember, all it takes is "the right one." It might take many, many tries to find that right person, but hopefully it'll happen for the both of us.
2007-01-20 15:09:37 · answer #2 · answered by jh361 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe you let them sleep with you and because of that they only think you are good only as a sex object and not a marriage material.
Just incase you sleep around with men then know this for sure, they would term you a prostitute in their mind even though they may not tell you this, sleeping around is not always a sign of love. play hard to get on bed and you would be more appreciated, if anyone comes to you for sex then see that guy as a potential deciever. Sex is not all there is to relationship. So if that has been your livestyle change it and you would get a positive result
2007-01-18 08:20:38 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 2⤋
If ever a girl ever told me I was too nice etc. I'd move on straight away as it's not a characteristic of a strong male, and sooner or later the girl would look elsewhere. Perhaps the reverse is what's happening to you?
2007-01-18 08:19:43 · answer #4 · answered by gareth_bancroft 2 · 1⤊ 2⤋
That's simple a lie that all men use to make a girl feel special. Just because it's a lie, doesn't mean that you are bad or even average. Just means we are trying to make you feel great mentally as well as physically
2007-01-18 08:13:07 · answer #5 · answered by Monk 2 · 2⤊ 2⤋
That is all men's language of getting what they want from a woman, after they are done, they just walk away like nothing ever existed. Try to be strict, like not rushing to bed with them.
2007-01-18 08:14:50 · answer #6 · answered by afmora 1 · 1⤊ 2⤋
There are literally hundreds of possible answers from they are lying to have sex with you to you have a flaw we don't know about. You need to do some self examination and ask some close friends to be brutually honest in their assessments.
2007-01-18 08:12:25 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 2⤋
They are just lying to you so they can have sexual relations with you. If they would say the truth that would have to say that I am the best, best looking, most honest, most sweet and they are second place at best. If you want the best look me up.
2007-01-18 08:13:42 · answer #8 · answered by John R 2 · 1⤊ 2⤋
You don't say how old you are nor how old the men are you are dating. But it sound like you are choosing the wrong type of man. Either you are the wild one or you are picking wild ones.
2007-01-18 08:13:53 · answer #9 · answered by allisoneast 4 · 1⤊ 2⤋
Don't give the boys so much of yourself... Keep the mystery until they committ... Establish a friendship men will stay with someone they like...Loving someone is scary to most of them...
2007-01-18 08:12:42 · answer #10 · answered by AAed 3 · 2⤊ 2⤋