My baby daddy and I broke up Nov2706. Three days later he is with some one else. They are in love(i guess). So, I just found out yesterday that they just got a place together. I am so shocked that I just cannot believe it! I mean we broke up over the littlest things. I mean, he is upset that I let myself go and that I wasn't willing to change some of my bad habits. I was upset because of some little things he did that got on my nerves. I just think that we needed a break for a while to figure out what we want...and that is what he said when we broke up. I am so scared because I have feelings for him still. How did he move on so fast after 4 years of us? Why/how did he fall for this other girl so fast?
2007-01-17 23:54:54 · 9 answers · asked by Stefi13 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
If it's any comfort I doubt that relationship will last long. He seems to be on the rebound. But as he is with somebody else it might be wise for you to let go of the relationship and move on. If you are meant to be together he will come back.
2007-01-18 00:00:09 · answer #1 · answered by gerrifriend 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sweetie, if he hooked up with her 3 days after leaving you then he's been seeing this other woman while he was still with you, think about it ...... do you have the men just lining up at your door waiting for the chance to jump into your arms as soon as he left and they became empty?(chances are no you don't) and I'm sure he is no "God's gift to women" so the women aren't lined up at his door either!!!!! He has had her in the shadows. If I were you I'd move on and just deal with him when it comes to issues concerning the baby. He will only do it again and again...do you want a disease or another pregnancy?? That is all he could ever offer you.
2007-01-18 00:26:53 · answer #2 · answered by "N"saysable 1iric 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yikes! That was fast of him! But is it possible that he was picking little fights with you so that you guys would break up? To me, that sounds like the most logical reason for why he was able to move on so quickly. Perhaps towards the later part of the relationship, he had already checked out mentally.
To be honest, I did that to someone before. We were together for almost 4 years. By the 4th year, I started to realize that she wasn't right for me. But instead of confronting the issue, I took the cowardly road and found little fights to pick here and there. Finally, one of them was big enough for me to break up with her.
Needless to say, I know that situation all too well and wish you all the best. I certainly hope that since he has moved on already, you'll be able to move on as well. Hope this helped!
2007-01-18 00:03:33 · answer #3 · answered by Paulyterp 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should know that when things are not going well in a relationship, the guy will take due cognizance to get something to fall back on should things turn sour, it is called planned B. That is exactly what the guy did.
2007-01-18 00:08:00 · answer #4 · answered by xolisa r 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because he is a man and men are like that which sucks. I've been there. It also sounds like he might have beencheating on you, because there is no way he could fall in love that fast. Sounds fishy to me. Sounds like a real winner. If I were you I would count my blessings that you dodged the bullet and go find yourself a real man one that will love you for you no matter what! Good Luck!
2007-01-18 00:02:11 · answer #5 · answered by snowball24life 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
He was maybe just looking for an excuse to leave and be with his new love. If he makes a demand of you that you change - and he knows you probably won't do it- this is his way out. You are lucky that you found out this guy is just a sperm donor. His new lady will find out this too. You deserve better. This guy is not worth your conscern.
2007-01-18 00:03:18 · answer #6 · answered by B I G D O G 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
face it he had to of been cheating on u with her u cant fall in love in 4 days
2007-01-18 00:01:15 · answer #7 · answered by bloody illusions 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
she had been there for a while, its just that you are finding out for the first time
2007-01-17 23:59:53 · answer #8 · answered by mnm4213 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
first you should go back to school and learn proper english
2007-01-18 00:18:45 · answer #9 · answered by Mark 6 · 0⤊ 2⤋