im only21yrs. old! i have this co-worker of mine not really exist to me, his just nothing, but one time we kissed and from that time he bothered my life in just a kissed, that kissed happened again and again until one time its more than a kissed we shared the night together and it not happened once! now i dont know what to do, im hurting myself cause i know from the start he can never be mine because his already taken. can you please give me some advice of what should i do? if im still go on this stupidity of mine or stop? how can i avoid were working in same company? help..?
2007-01-17 23:24:36 · 19 answers · asked by casandracastillo 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
At your age, one can't really be blamed for wanting the lust/passion of the moment. However, it seems you've answered your own question, by stating that you're "hurting yourself" and referring to your behavior as a kind of "stupidity".
Pat yourself on the back for being mature enough to see the situation for what it is: a mistake. We all make them. Pick your head up, in the knowledge that you know what's best for yoU, and that this isn't it. Keep it that simple. Don't beat yourself up over it. You can't avoid this person because you're working in the same place, but you can let it be known that you're a person with respect for yourself, and that you're simply not interested in carrying on any further with this person.
It's your guts that are telling you the situation isn't right. If there's one thing to know, it's that your guts do NoT lie! Go with your gut. Keep your head up, make the decision that makes yoU feel best about yourself. You'll be GLaD you did; you'll be proud of yourself for standing up for yourself, and there's no better experience to be had. You can do it!
2007-01-17 23:47:04 · answer #1 · answered by NoTlazidazi 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is Pathetic, I've never heard such a dumb thing in my life. How can you kiss someone you do not like at all, let alone sleeping with him. Just be honest to yourself and face the reality that you are in love with the poor guy it's just that you do not want to admit it to yourself.
That is so Immature and I, personally do not believe it at all that you do not want anything to do with the guy! If that is the case then why are you hanging up with him in the first place. Do not use the fact that you are working together as any excuse, cause it does not work for me.
2007-01-17 23:51:15 · answer #2 · answered by xolisa r 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe you should just let him go. It may be hard, but if he's already taken, you can't have him. Think about his girlfriend. Just tell him nicely that you just can't do this anymore. You can still be friends, but never intamate. Just set some ground rules. If he ever does that again, tell him about the ground rules; if he does it again, just leave in an orderly fashion. Stay strong!!!
XOXO,
Miss Rachel
2007-01-17 23:41:11 · answer #3 · answered by Katherine 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
stop this at once, you are an adult, act like one, tell him it is over, when he approaches you discuss work and work alone, if he trys to bring anything else up become busy else where. you are not only hurting yourself but the other person that he is seeing, he is using you both, you are not important to him, if you were then he would not be seeing someone else, and yes he is not important to you also so you are using each other, but you are also not being fair to the person that he is already with.
2007-01-17 23:31:05 · answer #4 · answered by reshadow31 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
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2016-09-07 22:03:49 · answer #5 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
foolish love syndrome got you.. he's just using you for his own pleasures.. you should realized that by now. the more you continue it the more it will hurt.. and it will be your lost not his, leaving the company is the best option you have for he wont avoid you but instead will only continue his own desires on you. yah i know it will hurt leaving him but it will only be for a time and one day you'll realize you made the right decision.
2007-01-17 23:34:43 · answer #6 · answered by AutumnMemoirs 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Simply distract yourself with something, a continuous new hobby or interest (a new boy-friend perhaps) or a single burst of entertainment and pleasure which will fill your mind for weeks to come ( a "boyfriend").
2007-01-17 23:30:23 · answer #7 · answered by Mercenary Poet 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
STOP! See him for what he is: an unfaithful cad taking advantage of a young girl. He is counting on you being nice because he knows you are inexperienced and confused about what to do.
2007-01-17 23:33:05 · answer #8 · answered by and_y_knot 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ummmm... He means nothing but you put out for him? Man, do you have any friends that are like you? Cause I'm taken but I want some action.
2007-01-17 23:29:48 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Move on to single co-workers.
2007-01-17 23:27:01 · answer #10 · answered by ropemancometh 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋