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2007-01-17 23:17:52 · 18 answers · asked by mnm4213 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
i dont think u can
2007-01-17 23:33:33 · answer #1 · answered by you are my angel 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Can you go down a buffet line without taking every kind of food you like?
Can you watch just one tv show when there are three shows on at the same time that you enjoy?
The answer to all these questions is - of course. Because until and unless that other person also has an attraction for you, there is nothing there. And the best way for the other person to develop an attraction - if he or she doesn't have one to start with - is for them to get to know you.
As a friend.
The best love affairs have friendship as the foundation. The ones that last. Be friends. If it turns into something else, wonderful. If it doesn't - you still have a friend. And if you truly love your friend, you will be glad for them whatever else happens.
2007-01-17 23:34:35 · answer #2 · answered by Uncle John 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I think people are having a hard time with this because the concept of 'being' makes no sense. They only know 'doing'. One is feminine aspect, the other masculine. (guess which is still dominant in our consciousness) Who are you when you are doing nothing at all? Certainly not a void. Being is the ground out of which you do whatever it is you do. The only real problem I have with the statement is that it an excess distillation of a complex understanding of how you attract the reality you find yourself in. As such, not too useful.
2016-03-14 07:31:25 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
there is nothing wrong in being just friends with someone u r attracted to.friendship is the first step in anything i think,cuz it gives u a better understanding and opinion of someone.and when u know this person,maybe u can choose your next step.to remain in friendship or more.if u suddenly just jump into a relationship.u might end up hurting yourself.if it does not work but if u start as a friend.even if they don become your loved ones,u still have him/her as a friend forever.
2007-01-17 23:47:21 · answer #4 · answered by kabayan 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
at the moment, I'm trying to be friends with someone that I'm in love with, but it is quite difficult. However, i know that i can't pursue things with him, and simply have to accept that he's off limits and just be happy to be his friend. So, in answer to your question, yes, you can be friends with someone that your attracted to, but, it takes a lot of maturity, self-control and discipline. good luck, i hope it all works out for you! :)
2007-01-17 23:52:56 · answer #5 · answered by jemm4president 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes!!...so for the rest of your life even when youre already dating or married, youre not going to be freinds with someone only because they're smoking hot. i dont think so. friends are friends no matter what, and if they look good then they become eye candy :)
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2007-01-17 23:31:40 · answer #6 · answered by rooster 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes
2007-01-17 23:31:35 · answer #7 · answered by ropemancometh 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm there now. I've become her friend. And will alwsys be there, should she need me. Maybe, in the future?...... We may be taking it to another Level. For now. It's a real lasting Friendship.
2007-01-17 23:21:36 · answer #8 · answered by Goggles 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm pretty sure that's the basis of most "platonic" friendships between males and females. At least one of them is attracted.
2007-01-17 23:21:47 · answer #9 · answered by ? 3 · 2⤊ 1⤋
For the first time I think you can be just friends but when you spending time together and your feelings getting bigger you have to talk to that guy. I have the same problem like U at this time ;)
2007-01-17 23:32:12 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yeah u can be just friends but most of this end up in a relationship why lie.
2007-01-17 23:26:33 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋