i am a shy guy by nature...whenever i talk to girls, i really struggle to keep the conversation going...and sometimes i even tend to ignore some female friends for the fear of speaking to them...most of my female friends are really mad with for this...i too want to talk but for some reason i cant...how do you strike conversations with girls and please tell me how to get rid of this girl fear...help me..somebody..
2007-01-17 23:08:30 · 6 answers · asked by MONEV 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
this may sound dumb, but it takes PRACTICE!!! just MAKE yourself talk to as many girls as you can, everywhere you go! Even if you don't want to talk to them, or aren't interested in them or dont even know them, just chat to them and I guarantee it will start getting easier. And girls like it when a guy listens a lot, so you should do fine if you just listen and then ask questions based on what they girl says, you'll be fine :)
2007-01-17 23:12:34 · answer #1 · answered by supagrrrl84 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not all the practice in the world can get some people out of this nature, sure give it some time and you will become more confident with talking to girls. But I guess always have, maybe not so much a joke, but funny things to say. Always be thinking of something to say next, in case its kind of like a closed answer and can't go on. When talking, try to ask questions, but don't be to nosey. Really depends on what you are talking about. Talk about what they did the past couple days, what they will be doing, etc. If you find you are asking questions, and they are giving you closed answers like "yes" or "no" then, that might be a sign they are shy as well or aren't interested. When talking to someone else, it should also be like equal share not all me me me or you you you.
But best adviced would be always think what to say next so you can keep it rolling, over time you will just know what to say next cause you have done it so many times. Also to have a break, try say something funny.
Oh and if you find it hard to look into their eyes while talking, look at their forehead instead, makes it much easier and it looks like you are looking into their eyes!
2007-01-17 23:17:57 · answer #2 · answered by Bruce T 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Put them completely off-guard by doing something that is out of character for you. While talking to them confidently is out of character for you, go further and do something like shout at them! They'll be confused and off-guard, giving you the greater edge!
2007-01-17 23:21:43 · answer #3 · answered by Mercenary Poet 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Forget about them, being gorgeous, Lovely Ladies. They're People, just like you. Usually as shy as you are. Talk to `em, like you would someone in your Family. You can do that, can't you.
2007-01-17 23:12:42 · answer #4 · answered by Goggles 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're kidding right? We talk about everything and anything. Just see what they are talking about and jump right in. The fact that you are interested makes girls appreciate you more.
2007-01-17 23:17:35 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
bless ya just start by talkin 2 friends that r girlz ones ur not attracted 2 u will b ok
2007-01-17 23:41:11 · answer #6 · answered by you are my angel 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋