we have met up a few times but have only kissed.
i have been abit of a tease by staying over his place!
he text me saying "would you sleep with me"?
i just text him jokingly saying that wasnt a nice thing to ask a young lady!
the chase carried on for abit but now hes ignoring my messages.
i have heard that he does like the chase.
am i to chase him now???
is this part of the game???
why is he ignoring me???
2007-01-17 22:49:24 · 19 answers · asked by XCuteX 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
the guy is 29 and single.
2007-01-17 22:55:04 · update #1
sounds like he didnt get what he wanted
beware of him
2007-01-17 22:52:33 · answer #1 · answered by mothertiggy 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
It sounds like he is only after one thing, and when you didn't put out his male ego was hurt so now he's ignoring you. BUT you did the right thing in not sleeping with him as I think you sensed the fact that he was unworthy of your attentions. Ask yourself this "Why do you wanna be with a man that plays games and is just after the sex?" At 29 he should be enough of a grown up not to do that and if he isn't then he's got problems and you should stay well clear. I suggest you round up your ladies and go out and party this weekend forget about the loser!
2007-01-17 23:19:40 · answer #2 · answered by Queen D 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well firstly ignore him for a week or two, see where that takes you!
If you really like him text him in a couple of weeks askin to meet up or tell him you want to stop at his place for a night of passion.
You need to keep him interested as the chase can get boring if its the same thing day in day out.
You gota do thigs to surprise him like turn up at his door naked, obviously with a long coat on so that he doesn't know until you go to the bedroom. After this one night don't text him and ignore him for a couple of days to leave him in limbo.
Things like this will keep him running back for more! Its worth a try!!
Good luck xx
2007-01-17 22:58:53 · answer #3 · answered by ♥Lexi♥ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Relationships are not a game. Sex is not a game. Clearly you don't have feelings for this person so let the "gaming" end. From now on only date people you care about and be honest in your dealings with them. Time to grow up.
2007-01-17 23:06:17 · answer #4 · answered by Queen of Cards 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds to me like you wore him out with your "chasing."
Then again, you don't say how old you are, but if you're a teen, and if he's only interested in getting in your pants, it's just as well that he's moved on. Don't hook up with a guy just because he's cute, but you know he wants only one thing.
2007-01-17 22:54:36 · answer #5 · answered by oaxaca_so_long 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe he thinks you're just a tease. And you do admit that you are. Talk to him face-to-face, forget the phone, then go from there. I'm sure you'll both know what to do after that.
2007-01-17 22:55:04 · answer #6 · answered by gone 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He is ignoring you because you chose not to be chased! secondly, dont play his game because that will be little fun for him and stop sending him messages!
2007-01-17 23:32:02 · answer #7 · answered by jiddey 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you had a lucky escape hun,be thank full that you didn't sleep with him,because you already know what would have happened,he would of got what he wanted and he would of been on the prowl for the next girl that came along
2007-01-18 01:12:28 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
he just wants to sleep with you....since you were not easy enough he is now looking for someone else who is! find a (nice) guy who will never ask you a question like that! he does not respect you at all!!! there are girls that guys have sex with and there are girls they marry...which type do you prefer to be?
2007-01-17 22:54:40 · answer #9 · answered by INC0GNIT0 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he dont wanna be playing like a fool. stop teasing him. if u like him tell him so. hes probly tire of ur game and figure that u r fuking with his mind.
2007-01-17 22:59:52 · answer #10 · answered by san s 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Apparently, he does not like the chase, or has grown tired of it.
2007-01-17 22:53:33 · answer #11 · answered by M.A.X. 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋