Okayy i am in 8th grade. I am 13 and my boyfriend is 14 and also in 8th grade. We have been dating over a month now, about 5weeks.
My dads birthday is coming up on monday. and we are going out to dinner. my mom wants me to invite my boyfriend.
im worriedt hat this might be too soon to have him go out with me and my parents. and im also worried how he will react to it. or that he might not want to go.
any advice would be greatly aprricated
2007-01-17 22:40:21 · 15 answers · asked by sarah m 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
your parents want you to invite your boyfriend, right? So your problem now is that if your boyfriend want to come. Because if your parents want to invite your boyfriend it simple means that they accept your boyfriend... am i right???
2007-01-17 22:48:05 · answer #1 · answered by fRog pRinCe 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your father's birthday may not be the best for your boyfriends and your parents to meet. It's your father's special day, he is going to want to celebrate and if he doesn't like your boyfriend it could get really messy. Also, your father may be secretly insulted if you prefer to bring a boy around than enjoy his party. Perhaps you should arrange for your boyfriend to come around on another day.
Of course, this is probably what your parents are thinking: You are pressured into inviting your boyfriend because it is your father's special day. Your father will most likely talk with your boyfriend, it is your dad's B'day and hence your boyfriend can't really turn him down. Your father may judge him or even evict him from the venue, nobody can stop him because it is his birthday.
2007-01-18 06:54:12 · answer #2 · answered by Mercenary Poet 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you should invite him. You are too young to have anything serious happen. Just treat him as a friend and invite him along. Just make sure he doesn't tip over his water glass at the table like I did when I was that young!
2007-01-18 06:44:33 · answer #3 · answered by gone 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well i think u should invite him cos ur parents have the right to meet your boyfriend and i believe they are'nt goin to bite you know so go ahead and try to make the situation comfortable for your boyfriend
2007-01-18 06:46:17 · answer #4 · answered by signorita 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Since ur parents don't mind, ur bf shld be happy that they have accepted him. Anyways, talk to him, ur just dating, u ain't asking him to marry u right and furthermore, it's just dinner. Btw, aren't u too young to date? Ur parents are that cool huh.
2007-01-18 06:44:29 · answer #5 · answered by DooGie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why don't you ask your boyfriend how he would feel about going, he is feels uncomfortable with it will then he doesn't have to go. But if he would like to go, then I hope that you all have a nice time
2007-01-18 06:49:44 · answer #6 · answered by Baps . 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think ur mum want to know the type of guy ur going out... so tht u dont go the wrong way
2007-01-18 06:46:10 · answer #7 · answered by Shania 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask him how he feels about going, if he has no problem with it then invite him.
2007-01-18 06:45:10 · answer #8 · answered by Rocky 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dont take the boyfriend, just enjoy your dads birthday with no pressure
2007-01-18 06:44:57 · answer #9 · answered by Jure 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stick to your books! Your are to young to seriously get involved.
2007-01-18 06:45:48 · answer #10 · answered by memonikos 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋