I informed him through text message, before I leave and forget everything that had happen between us, see guys, I accepted the truth that he will never be mine.. I just want to bear a child to fill up the missing space he occupied in my life.. I know he'd already read it when he's cellphone beep, then he hugged me so thight but then he denied he had read it and admitted he erase it immediately.. The next day I demand for a yes or no answer, he never response instead text back a questions.. "Do I like it, if he would ruin my life?" All I wanted now is a child, I don't want any other man to touch me the way he did, I realized, I will never loved anybody the way I loved him..
2007-01-17 21:09:07 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
A baby is not going to solve your problems. You need to be emotionally stable in order to be a good parent, and judging by your post, you are not stable. Give it time and your heart will eventually heal. Then you can think about having babies.
2007-01-17 21:11:50 · answer #1 · answered by bashnick 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, girl, NO! A child should never be brought into this world that way. You should talk to someone, really talk this thing out with someone, like a friend. You will love again, the pain is horrible and may seem devastatingly overwhelming but it is true that time heals all wounds. Avoid this guy at all cost until you can think objectively about the situation. But don't get pregnant just to fill the emptiness you feel inside, it isn't fair and you know what, you will still be as empty as you ever were but you'll have a baby to take care of. Think about it!
2007-01-18 05:18:17 · answer #2 · answered by KittyKatt 1969 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm serious when I suggest don't have a baby to fill a space for someone else. That's not a good enough reason. Maybe you should get a puppy instead. Having a baby is a huge responsibility, much greater emotionally than worrying about whether or not your boyfriend still loves you! You need to back off a bit for your own good, and do some activities with your friends and try to enjoy life if you are still undecided about him. He's trying to put a guilt trip on you about you ruining his life. Worry about your own life, but stop the "baby" wish. It's a bad move.
2007-01-18 05:27:09 · answer #3 · answered by gone 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Like one of the answers i read; A baby is not going to solve your problems...
To my own opinion, it'll only add to your problems, because you'll never forget him once you see his son, so i'll advice you to move with your life and forget this guy, from what you've written here, this guy is tired of you, who knows maybe you did something wrong, or something annoying to him, if is something you guys could settle, then why not go ahead and settle it with him, instead of saying all you want is just a child from him...It's not going to help at all..
Nice and loving guys are hard to come by though, all you have to do is to believe and have faith in yourself, i don't know how old are you but i'm just 19 telling you all these now, is either you settle it with him or you forget about him, don't even think of anything like child okay...
Hope this helps
2007-01-18 05:36:20 · answer #4 · answered by codedfeelins 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't make big decisions when your emotionally unstable/sad/mad/ feeling alone/needing to fill and empty space in your life...
first you need learn to love your self..and let go of him..spend time and learn to be an individual..it will take a couple months and years..but you will be happy that you didnt make the wrong decision..
having a child will only make things harder for you in the long run....try getting a Puppy or somthing..
2007-01-18 08:07:58 · answer #5 · answered by exotic_island_beauty 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
before you have my tax dollars going on another child get a life and grow up having a man's child will not make him be with you nor love you stop waisting tax dollars what do you have to offer a child when you cant even get in your head the man dont want you for nothing but to release in you idiot cops where are you at in times like this? maybe playing spades lmao
2007-01-18 05:14:54 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not to be rude, BUT you are looking for a reason to keep him in your life!! Having his baby is not a good idea, then he would have to come around to see the baby. I dont think its fair to you or the baby. The baby woould have to grow up with out a permanent father figure and you would have to look after the baby alone!The sooner you get over him the better for you!!!
2007-01-18 05:37:11 · answer #7 · answered by flaming scorpions 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow, your messed up. Please get busy and move on, do not be so selfish as to bring a child in to the world for your own personal short comings, I think you would be in for a big surprise that a child will not fix you but will forever remind you of why and how messed up you were thinking at this time. Please keep talking with people and let time heal you for a bit.
Good luck!
2007-01-18 05:14:58 · answer #8 · answered by yawhosucs 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Ohhh, I will feel threatened when someone wants my baby. May be you need to watch more Indian movies as how they come after you with their baby in the hand.
I cannot imagine my girlfriend wants my baby after the break off. Come on you have a hidden agenda.
Let go him and let live, find another boyfriend and enjoy.
2007-01-18 05:14:42 · answer #9 · answered by Cakebread 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well leave this poor guy alone :(
Get over him and find someone else and don't have a child with him or wotever.
2007-01-18 05:13:31 · answer #10 · answered by Luke B 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋