im a 24 yrs old girl working in airlines.i am having an affair with a 23 yrs old guy for past 1 yr.but he never try to undrstand my expectations of feeling imp.whereas theres another man of 32 yrs age who gves me lot of attentn and makes me feel imp.he wants to marry me.im in a confussion abt whom to choose.i love my bf alot but he is very unpredictable.i feel 5 yrs down the line he mght leave for no reason.but i love him too much.the man who proposed me loves me a lot and can give me all happiness...plz help me with a suggestion as to what i should do...should i stick to my bf and wait for my fate or should i accept the marriage proposal .....
2007-01-17 20:47:26 · 8 answers · asked by friendly_sunaina 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Weddings
follow your heart. if your feel that you are unsecured with your current bf, tell him.but if he still doesn't bothers about it, than i think you should really consider the marriage proposal and maybe tell the 32yrs old man that you want your feelings to flow so maybe have a little time for courtship before getting married. one more thing, you wouldn't want to break up with ur current bf for no reason right?you wouldn't want to be more hurt than now if you were to leave him.
2007-01-17 21:38:08 · answer #1 · answered by pretty winter snow 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I wouldnt think of excepting an offer a marriage while still dating another man. What you have is a bad boy younger man that excites you and you have an older man that knows where he is going and what hes after.
Now if thats where you want to be then give up the other man and date the other man till you know for sure that even though he makes you happy you must be satisfied. God Bless and Best of Luck!
2007-01-18 05:04:30 · answer #2 · answered by lovie12346 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think what you need to do is sit down with both and have a serious conversion with them about where they want the relationships to go. The thing is you already know that the 32 year old is serious about you because he wants to marry you. But are you ready for this commitment and are you ready to be faithful to one man.
Have a chat with the 23 year old just too really find out where his head is and what he wants not only out of the relationship but what he wants to achieve for himself.
Once you have had these conversions then you have to make a decision because it isn't fair on anyone and it's your future that you have to think about. The things is you have to do the things that is going to make you happy and a decision that you will be able to live with for the rest of your life
2007-01-18 06:15:32 · answer #3 · answered by Baps . 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you have doubts about the one you love, then he is not the right choice. However, just because there is someone else who proposed, doesn't mean you have to choose one or the other. There are other men out there.
Have you explored going further with the one who proposed? Perhaps letting go of Guy #1 and trying a full-time relationship with Guy #2?
I hope I have a proper understanding of your situation.
2007-01-18 12:40:01 · answer #4 · answered by Happy Wife 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That 23 year old is too young for you, his typa women are those in high school. Take the 32 year old guy. he been there done that and is ready to settle. The 23 guy prob has not had his fair share of p*ssy yet, leave him to enjoy life. Dont forget to invite me to the wedding
2007-01-18 06:17:49 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Have you been seeing this 32 year man while dating your boyfriend? If so, your boyfriend is NOT your boyfriend; he is just someone you are dating, so you are free to marry whomever you wish.
2007-01-18 06:19:00 · answer #6 · answered by Patti C 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds to me like you need to let go of both of them and take some time to grow up!
2007-01-18 08:12:56 · answer #7 · answered by blueblossom33 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hummmm tuf one but only u could decide you destiny it is in your hands.
just follow your heart and ask god what to lead you
2007-01-18 05:18:52 · answer #8 · answered by girl1991 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋