I crave ROMANCE!!!!! Flower pettles Champagne, bubble baths, my boyfriend of 3 years says he doesn't know how to be romantic. How can this be? What do I do? Do I just keep doing it when I crave something more & how do I talk to him w/out hurting his feelings.
2007-01-17 20:47:12 · 7 answers · asked by f23bunnie 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
well when you dump him for not doing the things you like , he will learn to be more romantic ...
2007-01-17 20:54:35 · answer #1 · answered by klunk 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, this is you. He sas he doesn't KNOW how. So enlighten him! Take the first step! Prepare a candlelit dinner on the balcony and, when you get back inside, have flower pettles on the bed and floor! SHOW him what you want! Tell him what it is that you expect. You can expect him to know what you want if you dont tell him!
2007-01-17 21:00:01 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he doesn't know romance, acquaint him. You can't just expect him to pluck all of the ideas out of your head. YOU have to put in some work, too! Draw a bubble bath and buy a bottle of champagne to share with him.
2007-01-17 20:52:00 · answer #3 · answered by John C 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell him what you want and say you'll be really happy if he do this. some guys are just not romantic, but when you tell him what you want and even do it on your own, he'll be a jerk not to participate and appreciate it. it is very, very important for a guy that his loved-one is happy/satisfied. keep it light and not too mushy, plus consider his feelings when planning. try to get some ideas from him when planning so he'll feel he's involved in this.
its very tiring if you do all the effort. so if he keeps on being boring then maybe you have to re-think if you want to stay longer with him.
2007-01-17 22:32:57 · answer #4 · answered by rinkumi 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That's easy to have romance. Give him a suprise. Example:
You give him a secret note: "meet me outside the balcony at 9:00 pm". And at 8:59pm hide at the balcony in the shadows. And when he goes into the balcony, grab him qucik with your hand and give him a long hour kiss. He'll love you to bits! and it'll be damn romantic!
2007-01-17 20:54:37 · answer #5 · answered by Frances 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Good way of expression. One with language of shyness and the other pretending innocent.
2007-01-17 20:56:42 · answer #6 · answered by thinkpose 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i am a doormat/shoe cleaner does that help?
2007-01-17 20:51:50 · answer #7 · answered by docile_fool 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋