We currently work together and we are very good friends.But a couple of years ago i developed a very serious crush on her and since then my feelings for her have only got stronger and i am now at the point where i am constantly thinking about her when im not with her, and i am always trying to think up excuses to go and see her. i get excited when i know im going to be seeing her. I just want to be with her all the time and when im not i feel like im about to crack up.
2007-01-17 20:45:22 · 10 answers · asked by dx_130781 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
thou shalt not covet you neighbors wife,,,,,,,,,,,,, go tap that as s man
2007-01-17 20:49:10 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
what you should do is turn around and go. This is a no go zone. The woman is married thus committed to another person and possibly family. Also it is more complicated by the fact that you work together, work relationships are not encouraged because of the negative dynamics it causes when things go wrong. Even if she was single a work relationship can be complex, how would you cope if the relationship failed and you had to see her every day at work. You have not indicated that she has offered more than friendship so I assume that this dealing is one way. Dont go adding a strain to her marriage, ask to be relocated elsewhere in your employment to limit contact between you and if this is not possible and you cant resolve your feelings for this woman seek work elsewhere as this is consuming you and blocking other opportunities that are more available to you. In other words it is not a healthy environment
2007-01-18 04:56:15 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
dont go there hun - its complicated enough in the sense that you work together - if you tried to take it further and you were rejected it would be SOO awkward for you every day!
Also the fact she's married - do you really want to be labeled a marriage wrecker? Shes not on the market hun - go put your attention elsewhere!
Its probably just some kind of work related crush anyway - chances are even if you did get with her you'd get sick of it and then you may have potentially broken up her marriage and the trouble that follows just isnt worth it.
I think you should be trying to find excuses NOT to see her - out of sight out of mind and all that
Good luck
xx
2007-01-18 06:02:46 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
if she hasnt made any indications that she feels the same way, i suggest u leave it. if u tell her an she doesnt feel the same way it will crush u, an things will become awkward between u an ur friendship might not be able survive that. she's married 4 a reason.
2007-01-18 04:52:27 · answer #4 · answered by debs 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be a man and let sleeping dogs lie... If she wanted a relationship with you she would leave her hubby!! Stop wasting time and find some one who will love you...
2007-01-18 04:58:32 · answer #5 · answered by Lisa P 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well what can you do about it? Is she in love with you? If not, then you will have to get over it and move on............................
2007-01-21 10:11:06 · answer #6 · answered by bevalou 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're not in love, you're infatuated
2007-01-18 04:50:01 · answer #7 · answered by misbehave4me 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
*married*
this should mean no go
2007-01-18 05:14:14 · answer #8 · answered by lips 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
WALK AWAY!!!
2007-01-18 04:49:37 · answer #9 · answered by cwiltshire 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Leave her alone............
2007-01-21 19:20:57 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋