Ok have a hot date over the weekend with a guy Ive been meeting - I know things are going to escalate to getting hot and heavy and Im going to go down on him ....BUT.......... because its still new and all that I dont feel comfortable going there without him wearing a condom.....but dont want to appear frigid by asking him to wear one ............so......how do I tell him he has to wear one?!? PLEASE help!!!! Love ye all
2007-01-17 20:24:47 · 31 answers · asked by Its me! 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
buy some flavoured ones and tell him you'll guess the flavour, but don't say cheese and onion before he has had the chance to put one on
2007-01-17 21:04:47 · answer #1 · answered by Troubled Joe(the ghost of) 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you ask him to wear a condom there should be no question about it. He should readily agree. If he makes an issue about it just don't do what you were going to do. Remember, you are making the calls here.
Also, you really don't need to ask him to wear one. Take a condom with you. When it comes to that time just take the condom out and put it on him. There shouldn't be an issue either way.
2007-01-17 20:32:31 · answer #2 · answered by chugyn 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just tell him to put a condom on! It is better for the both of you. You don't want to live with the regret of that day for the rest of your life do you? If he is caring and understanding, as he should be, he won't have a problem with wearing a condom!
2007-01-17 20:27:55 · answer #3 · answered by Renee B 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hello, your personal health is more important than being embarrassed.
You don't have to say anything just hand him the condom when things start to get heated. Then let him do the talking.
Good Luck
Have Fun!
Always remember to keep safe.
2007-01-17 20:37:13 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It shouldn't be an issue. Just tell him. If he has nothing to hide, he won't get defensive about it. It's MATURE to do the right thing in these kinds of situations and the last thing you want to do is walk away from a hot date with his genital herpes in your mouth.
2007-01-17 20:28:23 · answer #5 · answered by mattysmommy2004 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Buy some and out them on the night stand! There is nothing wrong with asking or protecting yourself! If he doesn't wear one then don't do it! I bet he does next time. You may be surprised he may have some already!
2007-01-17 20:28:41 · answer #6 · answered by LSD 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Jeez female...what's it gonna take...a Mack truck to fall out of the sky and land on you???...the guy is infatuated with you...in case you % him...decide for IT...do not make the comparable errors assorted females do, and purely wait to verify what happens...he might initiate strolling in a distinctive direction quickly in case you do not provide him some play...and speedy!!! ~smiles~
2016-10-31 10:21:24 · answer #7 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Em......wat age r u?! If he's a mature adult he will know its safer for you both n you won't need to worry about it! How do u automatically know ur gonna go down on im? Sounds very pre planned an robotic. Good luck
2007-01-17 23:48:06 · answer #8 · answered by Dolly 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
hey - if he is a nice lad then he will respect your request! you need to tell him since its early days you would feel better if he did this for you - its not an insult to him - its just your thing - hopefully (like I say if he is a nice lad!) he will think even more highly of you that you don't just give anything out that easy!
good luck!
2007-01-17 22:30:30 · answer #9 · answered by Grace - baby No.2 due in October 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be honest he will appreciate it , also have one or two condoms with you incase he doesnt have any you can buy them out of most gas station bath rooms now
2007-01-17 20:28:32 · answer #10 · answered by reshadow31 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋