We are living together for one year now. My boyfriend says that most couples are doing it only a few times a week and that i want to often.. I want at least 2x a day, morning when we wake up and when we go to bed together, that isnt to much to ask, is it?? He says I want too much and need to cut down.. The sex is great and i love my boyfriend. Does anyone has good advise??? thanks
2007-01-17 20:18:24 · 19 answers · asked by madussa 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
There is nothing more or less in sex. It is different from one to another. I think he is not the perfect match for you. Find someone who meets your expectations.
2007-01-17 20:30:39 · answer #1 · answered by salharbi444 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If he works it can be hard to constantly be having sex. In the morning some people need time to wake up all the way and the sex can screw with that. There shouldn't be a problem at night, again, unless he works hard he might be knocked out. Get a vibrator or use your fingers and take care of yourself so you don't have to rely on getting it all the time. That way you can just love the time you do get it. Just don't be really demanding after he's been working all day, turn off. Sometimes if you aren't after him for it, that is a huge turn on and he will jump you. Try it.
2007-01-17 20:25:06 · answer #2 · answered by john b 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ok, a lot of people have sex more than a few times a week. When I was living with my ex, we had sex everyday two-three and sometimes four times a day. What I think you should do is start by giving him a massage, then start kissing his neck. Where sometime really sexy, and some perfume that smells good. Guys like the sent of perfume that isn't strong. Some also like the smell of fruity smells, like cucumber melon, and vanilla.
2007-01-17 20:26:36 · answer #3 · answered by Britney 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When I was young, I did it 7 X in one day. Things slow down as you get older though. Although from 20 to 35 yrs old, I probably averaged 2 to 3 X daily. At 60 yrs. I can take it or leave it. Stress can put a damper on it too.
2007-01-17 20:29:47 · answer #4 · answered by The 5 pound Robin 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You're wearing him out....and you might scare him.....If he says you need to cut down, he's already telling you nicely......... It's normal in a relationship where the sex thing wears out........... You have a very high sex drive.......not all men can keep up with that......and 2x a day? If you really need to ease yourself, why not buy a vibrator? That should help you from demanding it from him ......... girl, my bestfriend was with a girl like you for a year.....and he ended up leaving her because he felt that she was too much for him to handle and he got paranoid that she would do it with other men just to satisfy her sexual needs.......he decided to dump her! He said that she was too wild for him.........So be careful there.....
2007-01-17 20:31:37 · answer #5 · answered by Cream 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My gal also got this problem.
To me, I had no problem, I also very horny guy. But then most of the time she makes me feel like a whore.
Meaning is that, she show me sweetness when she wants a good time. Then silence off to her daily stuff without a single call or nice SMS.
Upon meeting was only when she free and after 10pm...
I feel so hurt that she taking me for granted..
I don't want she to feel that our relationship is based on SEX.
I want us to be based on LOVE and WANTING.
I give her good time everytime. and she does me good too.
I worry in cases that if i am not around, will she stray and accept external sources to ease her Desire....
From the way she dress, the way she looks, the way she do me..... I tell you ...........ON MAN CAN RESIST COCK STANDING....
I am just being direct... so pls do not blame me for being straight..
Now she say we are having a DISTANCE... Oh my god.... is is that i give her not enough? ,,,,,
PLease SAVE ME..... i really want her .... I really need her....
2007-01-17 20:29:35 · answer #6 · answered by bananaakina 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
better have your bf checked out no man wil refuse sex , couple times a week is not average, its way less
2007-01-17 20:31:55 · answer #7 · answered by Bob D 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
many men have sex three and four time a day if the opportunity is available. i think your bf is getting it on with someone else checkup on him.
2007-01-17 20:31:11 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
when your in bed and he does not want to have sex wait until he is sleeping then start giving him head trust me he will wake up and be horny
2007-01-17 20:26:23 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
you are lucky to get 3 times a week!!!
sometimes i get none per week. i was as horny as you are...so i go solo...now i dont feel like having sex with my bf anymore...haiz~~..i want it..but my body doesnt respond
2007-01-17 20:26:36 · answer #10 · answered by cheeryviola 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋