Well, I've been having a crush on this girl - I didn't tell her that I like her and I don't even bother to show it. I mean, I tend to hide the feeling inside me. All I did was, sometime I left her a note (posted note paper) saying something like, 'Good Night, sweet dreams' and or 'It's getting cold, stay warm.' You know, stuffs like that - Do you think that she at least get the ideas that I have some 'feeling' toward her? Or, well - put it this way, if a guy doing these kind of stuffs to you, what will you think? Will you feel un-comfortable or weird? and oh yea, she's blonde! for those who answers +2 points !
2007-01-17 20:15:48 · 16 answers · asked by a9113257311 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
And oh yea, I treat her as my normal friend and have no intention of going to tell her that I like her either . . .
2007-01-17 20:18:15 · update #1
I could totally assume some dude was interested in me if he did stuff like that. You'd have to be blind not to assume that... It would be kind of flattering to have someone put thought into something just for me. I don't know how I would react to you, but it would be a positive reaction.
2007-01-17 20:20:07 · answer #1 · answered by Knee 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your notes are sweet and yes she has figured out you like her. And it would appear she considers you as a friend too. Otherwise she would have said something to you or someone else about the notes being 'spooky'.
And why not let her know you like her? You could do it through the notes and then it would be less confronting for you both. Seems to me you might both be a little shy.
Valentine's Day is not that far away???? Just a thought, good luck.
2007-01-18 04:25:46 · answer #2 · answered by sag_kat2chat 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think she might find it just to be sweet, or as flirtation.
Write some other kind of fun things on your notes, and then maybe ask her out for some coffee. Start out with something small, just to see how she reacts to the flirting and all. Then go up to an actual date, and tell her how you feel.
But always remember, just because she flirts back, doesn't mean she has feelings for you.
You seem like a real nice guy, don't make the mistake by wearing your heart on your sleeve.
Best of luck to you!
2007-01-18 04:22:25 · answer #3 · answered by Jean 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
well i can tell you either she notices you mate but she really doesnt know what to do about it OR she wont do anything coz she may look at you like real nut! Can i ask you , do you know if she likes you at all of any sort, you must or else you wudnt be writing little notes,no anyway ok so then i would figure you now have to approach her on 1 of your notes,to get some kind of response back, like how long will you keep doing this, i think your rather brave +10 points for your effort but my concern for you is that you have to be on a mission to get a green light to move on from notes to the movies......... Goodluck bro
2007-01-18 04:23:15 · answer #4 · answered by cookieazz 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you need to let her know your feelings about her, hunny! While you are leaving her a simple little note, you might want to include your PHONE NUMBER and ask her if she'd like to hang out at the movies on a Friday night!
Don't be so subtle, and don't keep it inside any longer.
Good Luck, hun! *hugs*
2007-01-18 04:19:21 · answer #5 · answered by Daft One 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well not all girls are are the same, but I would wondering why would he be giving me notes. But at the same time if you don't show how you feel it makes it harder she will just move on. Maybe stop hidding your feelings and start talking to her keep her guessing. Eventually she will get it and open up to you also. Maybe you can ask her out.
2007-01-18 04:22:09 · answer #6 · answered by Questions 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Notes are like first grade boy if you want a woman you got to be a man and ask her to dinner or a drink. If your in school still then ask her to a movie. Don't be to shy and never kiss her on the first date. Woman hate fast pants men. Don't forget to be your self.
2007-01-18 04:30:38 · answer #7 · answered by Angel 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I would take it as a hint that you may have interest in me but unless you ask her out you won't know how she feels! Maybe your next note should say would you like to go to dinner-Good eats Great time.
2007-01-18 04:20:12 · answer #8 · answered by LSD 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
yeah I think she knows you like her - why else would you leave her notes? I think its far more preferable to just CHAT to her - dont leave notes. That way you can SEE her reaction / body language when you chat to her and you can decide if she has feelings back or not.
2007-01-18 04:18:31 · answer #9 · answered by supagrrrl84 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I'm sure she does why don't you ask her to go to a movie with you get to know her what have you got to loose anyhow hay?
ask her out be honest.
2007-01-18 04:22:27 · answer #10 · answered by happychick 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋