I think you should be careful with this. I dont go with the throw it away and they will get over it brigade! How would you feel if something you relied on to calm you down was just chucked away? I suggest you start telling her she is a big girl and can't have it at certain times - like when you are out. Gradually wean her off the times in the day when she can have it but do it slowly. I think its unfair to take it away at nap-times and night, I really do. My little girl had a dummy up til she was 6, and so what? You will find these things don't really matter. I don't mean she had it 24/7 when she was 6, just at night and if she came home from school stressed/tired. Some children give them up themselves anyway at a certain age. This world is a big,scary place - and a dummy is a simple pleasure. Don't take it away too early. A 2 year old is little more than a baby really.
2007-01-17 20:15:40
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answered by Caroline 5
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keep in mind 2 issues while it is composed of weaning a newborn from something. . . a million. you elect all adults on board with any "approach" that going for use for the weaning technique. 2. notwithstanding that's which you deem mandatory to wean the newborn from is a typical ritual/recurring to them. for this reason any deter from that recurring is going to reason the newborn tension (besides as everybody else) till you could totally set up a different recurring. while it is composed of issues which contain pacifiers. . . take the call heavily. . . pacifier. . . which skill it pacifies the newborn. for this reason that's a coping mechanism besides as a recurring. you could desire to discover something that the newborn can replace for the pacifier. . . be it a prevalent filled animal, blanket, and so on. you could continuously attempt reducing off the assistance of each and every of the pacifiers and easily allowing the newborn to hold the pacifier at specific situations, or maybe hook it onto their outfits or a bracelet so that's with them 24/7. you additionally can attempt dipping the pacifier into something which will insurrection the newborn (i.e. a style which you recognize the newborn does not like). that way the newborn will initiate associating the pacifier with an unpleasant style.
2016-10-07 08:14:56
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answered by ? 4
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Either go cold turkey with her or gradually show her that it's not needed 24/7.
My little guy is just over 2 and we're not too concerned about it but he would use it all day if he could as well. What i do is ask him to take it out and talk to me here and there. I'll then distract him and break out one of his toys or a book and really interact with him. Before you know it the pacifier is in my pocket and he has forgetten about it. I think over time that type of approach works best.
2007-01-17 20:04:43
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answered by the matt 2
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My daughter was hooked on the pacifier and finally we came up with a method to get rid of it. She wanted a particular doll and we told her that if she placed the pacifier on the table the next day the pacifier would disappear but the doll would appear in its place. Thats what she did and - no more pacifier and no tears.
2007-01-17 20:15:52
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answered by insp.clouseau 2
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My wife and I rubbed fresh cut jalapeno on the pacifiers of our 3 kids. Took about 3-4 days and they each stopped using pacifiers. Worked like a charm.
2007-01-17 19:56:38
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answered by BongH2oBoy 2
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First of all its not to big of a deal, She definately won't be sucking it by the time she gets to school. Try Telling her that the pacifier fairy is going to be visiting your house soon and if she wants to get a present she needs to post her pacifier in the mailbox and then the pacifier fairy will leave a present. The present could be woteva her favourite thing is tell her to tell you when shes ready to post her pacifier and receive her present go with her post it and when shes not looking put her present in there and take her to get her gift. When she asks for it later remind her that she posted it and can't get it back now. THROW IT OUT don't let it return you may get some tears but ive known it to work.
2007-01-17 20:06:06
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answered by bedfordbuschick 2
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This is what we did with our kids:
On Xmas eve she put the pacifier out for the baby reindeer so that when Father Xmas came to bring her presents he took it for the baby reindeer.
We did the same for our other daughter at Easter, leave it for the baby bunnies and when she wakes up it is gone but there is an Easter egg.
Talk to her/him about it before hand so she has a part in it and understands.
Good luck
2007-01-17 20:05:48
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answered by jaygirl 4
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When it comes to diminishing a child's pacifier attachment, providing encouragement and a sense of independence for children is most effective. Give children the decision to stop using a pacifier, just like you may give them the choice to wear the blue shirt, green shirt or yellow shirt when they are learning to dress themselves.
You always want to use positive language to help build a child's self-esteem, and you don't want to have a negative effect by saying things like, 'You don't want to be a little baby with a pacifier do you?' This gives children the wrong connotation and they may think that when they were babies, you loved them more. If we want them to feel confident about growing up, we need to teach them the decision-making process. We must help them grow up by themselves.
Never use punishment or humiliation to force your child to give up using a pacifier.
Some of these tips may be helpfull to you.....
Start a reward chart to mark your child’s progress.
Praise your child when your child has given up the pacifier and tell her you are proud that she is growing up.
Allow your child to express his feelings and if your child is upset or angry, give him special cuddles to help her cope.
If your child asks for the pacifier again (and she probably will), don’t give in. Remind her that the pacifier is gone and that she is grown up now.
2007-01-17 20:14:16
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answered by katie 3
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What i did was just took it away, i threw away all of them except one and put it in my purse just in case it got to be too much, ya know. Its a comfort for moms too! You'll have to deal with the tantrums for a little bit, but i told my daughter that she was a big girl now and we had to give the pacifiers to the babies. It made her feel good that she wasnt a baby anymore and it took about 2 days. Keep them as busy as possible, to keep their mind off it.
2007-01-18 02:27:41
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answered by Angel 2
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Oh thats a hard one..................if you take it away from here bit by bit during the day and when she cries change the subject get a game out or her favourite toy which will help to take her mind off it. It will be a very hard but you have to stick to your guns.
Just keep saying your are proud or her and what a "big" girl she is, its like anything a habit which takes time to break.
Good luck
2007-01-17 20:36:31
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answered by forion68 2
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