i met a girl a few months ago and fell in love with her, a feeling i had never known before. but i was moving away and it didn't work out. she sorta liked me back but chose to be with someone else. i then got back with my ex. the whole situation was really confusing. before i left, we agreed that we would send e-mails back and forth. we've been doing that for a few weeks, but it kept hurting me bc it kept reminding me of her. so i just sent her an e-mail saying i had to be out of touch with her for a while bc the pain was so fresh and i'm trying to be good to my gf. was this the right thing to do? it hurts pretty bad.
2007-01-17 19:39:18 · 6 answers · asked by rhiannon_kc 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
u r trying to sail in 2 boats, its not possible for u, so try to chose a one that sets for u.
2007-01-17 19:46:27 · answer #1 · answered by prabhakar_ace 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Depends on your goal of sending that e-mail. Sounds like any contact with this girl is hurting you, so I would say get her out of your head, move on and date others (or your current girlfriend). If she is totally out of your reach and really feel like you can't get her (if she is truly unattainable) then stop interacting with her. It doesn't sound like its doing you any good.
HOWEVER, If what you really want is to be with this girl, then just man up and change your tactic. Just being an e-mail buddy won't work, that's not really what you want, is it??? You want her. So, start thinking about how you can make that happen. If you need help with that just ask, but you might already know how to do that. But remember long distance relationships are difficult (they suck, and I don't recommend them, and I won't personally be in one EVER again, at least not for long)
2007-01-18 03:50:37 · answer #2 · answered by NDAZZLE 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your problem is not simple at all. You had a girlfriend, she had a boyfriend, so it's not easy for you and her to become a couple now. At the moment, you need time to think seriously about your ralationship. Who is the girl you love, you need ? The new one or your ex-girlfriend. Sometimes It's just the feeling of meeting a new pretty, cool girl .. it's not love but maybe it's a true love. Don't be in a hurry and think carefully before you decide.
2007-01-18 03:48:37 · answer #3 · answered by Thuy Nguyen 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do what you want. Break up with your girlfriend though. Emotional attachments with someone else will hurt her more than knowing you communicate with this girl. Its kind of selfish. Put yourself in your current girlfriend's shoes. Its just easier. (The other girl will never work out. She just liked the attention)
2007-01-18 03:43:52 · answer #4 · answered by s 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Letting her know that she chose to be with someone else and you are moving forward with your relationship with your ex. and need your space was the right thing to do.
2007-01-18 03:47:39 · answer #5 · answered by Tazz 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
U should not mail her. anymore.
2007-01-18 03:45:05 · answer #6 · answered by || SMI || 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋