I love a dude I am about to get a place with him. I cheated on himm 3 times. And I dont feel bad. Twice with my ex and a gave his room mate head. I dont feel bad I feel like I love him more. Can I be in love with hiim and not feel bad for cheating?
2007-01-17 19:29:54 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You cant *really* love him if you're cheating on him and not feeling bad at all :\
2007-01-17 19:36:20 · answer #1 · answered by Alisha 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why don't tell the "boyfriend" you are about to move in with and ask him what he thinks? If you don't feel bad and say you love him then be honest about it. Bring a girl home for him to do with you or in front of you and see how you feel. If you can put the shoe on the other foot and it doesn't bother you then you probably are a swinger and if you want to have your cake and eat it to then you should find someone in that lifestyle.
Because it's completely hyprocritical of you to run around without him knowing. Love is based on TRUST and if you are lying (by omission as well) and running around without his knowledge then you aren't being trustworthy and that's not love.
You saying you love him more afterwards is probably GUILT.
Check the swinger sites below and find your new boyfriend. Or at least a girlfriend for your soon to be ex.
2007-01-17 19:42:11 · answer #2 · answered by Cybrocupid 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If i somewhat love a guy, i'm no longer going to cheat on him. If i think like the guy isn't assembly my desires or needs, then i'll sit down down and communicate over with him and attempt to artwork issues out. If issues do no longer change then i'd be honest with him and enable him keep in mind that i think that is in basic terms perfect to interrupt off the relationship. in case you cheat on someone, you do not love them and also you actually do no longer have any appreciate for them both.
2016-10-15 09:44:27 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You betrayed your bf's trust on three separate occasions and you "don't feel bad about it"? How do you think he'd feel about it if you actually told him? Think he'd feel "not bad" and "love you more"? I doubt it.
You're quite the little sociopath, aren't you? Look it up if you don't know what that means. Have you ever heard of things like guilt, empathy, trust, commitment and maturity?
I feel really bad for your bf; he's about to move in with a woman who might have severe emotional problems.
SEEK COUNSELING IMMEDIATELY!!!!
2007-01-17 19:39:08 · answer #4 · answered by lupin_1375 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I honestly dont think it's love, when you love someone....you wont hurt them, at least not on purpose. I understand when people cheat once.....but 3 times. One time, you can slip, we're only human but 3....that's a habit. Imagine, If you love him.....the stuff you do to him....now imagine the stuff you would do if you hated him? Gives you something to think about.
2007-01-17 19:38:21 · answer #5 · answered by ?Jaileen? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its not cheating if he is in on it as in a 3some. But to do it with his room mate and you have no remorse. Sure you dont have a some male hormone predominance?
2007-01-17 19:40:10 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow, his roomate?? Come on man, do you have a heart??!!
I'm no angel. I have cheated before (totally justified in my opinion)...but there are some lines where I wouldn't cross....
2007-01-17 19:36:19 · answer #7 · answered by angie20k 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
WHORE! You don't love your self, how could you possibly love any one else?
2007-01-17 19:38:14 · answer #8 · answered by Sheb Schebella 2 · 1⤊ 2⤋
you do these things because your an uncontrolable sl ut but then all women are....they cant be trusted....NOW!!!!NEXT QUESTION?????
2007-01-17 19:35:58 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋
You're probably a WHORE - SLUT ! . . . . now, go kill yourself !
2007-01-17 19:59:51 · answer #10 · answered by a9113257311 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋