is she just out to get me?
how can i prove it to her, i ain't
2007-01-17 19:24:03 · 15 answers · asked by SUPERMAN 4 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Other - Pregnancy & Parenting
the condom was fine
didnt rip or nothin
2007-01-17 19:40:32 · update #1
how do i sign up for the Maury show
2007-01-17 19:41:14 · update #2
Get DNA testing to establish paternity.
2007-01-17 19:27:21 · answer #1 · answered by JADE 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
As others have already said, a paternity test is needed to prove that you are not the father of this girl's child. Bear in mind that no protection, aside from abstinence, is 100% effective. Condoms are typically 98% effective against pregnancy, unless something goes wrong with it (which then drops the rate to about 85%). So it is not impossible for you to be the father, but you won't know until after the birth when the paternity test can be conducted.
2007-01-18 03:41:25 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Condoms can have small tears that you may not be aware of. This is what you need to do...Go to the family courts and tell them of the situation. Tell them you are a good guy and want to set up child support payments. Tell them you aren't for sure if the child is yours and they will pay for and enforce a DNA order. Don't embarrass yourself or your family taking it to TV. Handle your business like the MAN you are. Good Luck...oh and whatever you do...keep it respectable...you don't want to find out you called your child something horrible or your child's mother. Keep it top notch!
2007-01-18 04:10:05 · answer #3 · answered by aprildin 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you had sex with her, then you can't!
I imagine she's sweating just as much as you are. Work together on this, don't upset her or antagonise her just because you don't want to be a daddy. If you believe she was messing around, ask for a dna test.
But every baby needs its father and I hope that you will do your bit, even though you're scared.
2007-01-18 03:34:53 · answer #4 · answered by True Blue Brit 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if it is not your why are you sweating it. The worse that could happen is she claims that you are the dad and files for child support. But when you go to court and tell the judge that it is not yours you will have to take a paternity test.
2007-01-18 03:28:44 · answer #5 · answered by Nat Turner 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Condoms can leak, who knows. Get a paternity test like everyone else is telling you. Don't automatically start denying it and getting angry at her and stuff, just work it through. If it's yours; it's yours. If it's not; it's not.
2007-01-18 03:32:36 · answer #6 · answered by mr x krazy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
go on the maury show. get a perternity test and protections fails all the time.
2007-01-18 03:27:21 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Just get a paternity test. If she refuses, take her to court to order one.
2007-01-18 13:47:00 · answer #8 · answered by KathyS 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
abstinance is the only 100% form of birth control.
get a dna test
2007-01-18 03:44:41 · answer #9 · answered by jennifer 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
well for one boy if you had sex with a condom or without she can be pregnant... ABSTANCE is the key word keep your pants up and you cant prove to her nothing until she shows you that the pregnancy test is negitive
2007-01-18 03:28:30 · answer #10 · answered by Tator Salad 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋