do guys like girls who are fat(not very fat..just a little fat.....??..i have this friend of mine..she's quite fat..almost every guy likes her..the thing i don't get is..why do all of the guys in school likes her??..she's not really pretty...and she's very rude..even my crush likes her...and she knows that i like him..but she does not like him..and always tries to talk to him..and make me jealous..im really sad..how can i make a guy like me??.....
2007-01-17 19:05:25 · 14 answers · asked by chic 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
she does not flirt with guys for your info..she just talks to them like a normal person..and she does not do anything to make them like her..
2007-01-17 19:16:11 · update #1
A) Get rid of your friend. She's not your friend, she's an aggressive person, stepping on your mousy personality.
B) If your "Crush" is not with someone, start talking to him.
C) If your "Crush" is with someone get over it, and meet someone else.
Fat doesn't matter to me, but it does to some guys, especially younger guys. I always went with trying to date someone that I can talk to, hair color eye color cute / fat whatever, doesn't matter.
Life is too short. Live it, instead of being afraid of it.
You can't "Make" a guy like you. You have to just be the most like able person you can. This does not mean agree with everyone. This does not mean do things for everyone. It means have confidence, be happy, life your life, and have things going on in your life besides boys. Get a hobby, learn art or writing, be creative.
Good luck.
2007-01-17 19:12:34 · answer #1 · answered by A Military Veteran 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, It seems that you are a bit jealous about this girl. The thing is she has some thing which make guys attracted to her though she is fat. Generally most guys don't like fat girls. she is exceptional. So live with the truth. You don't have to think about her. see your self and act towards your interest.
And don't be jealous. That is bad.
2007-01-17 21:08:22 · answer #2 · answered by Sam 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Most guys don't like fat chicks even if they themselves are fat. Guys date fat chicks because they have low self esteem. There's nothing on the planet more grotesque than a naked fat women. I know a lot of fat women who I enjoy being friends with but I would not date them ever. Over eating is like over indulging in alcohol; don't want to be around that type of person. But they like your friend because you guys are young and she is probably a whore.
2007-01-17 19:18:07 · answer #3 · answered by Sheb Schebella 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Someone beat me to it, but, yes, she likely puts out. you state she is fat, and rude. Guys can tolerate rudeness from a girl who is hot. So, the hotter the girl, the ruder(is that a word?) she can be. They go hand in hand. But, throw in the "will give it up" factor, and you have a whole new variable in the equation.
2007-01-17 19:18:55 · answer #4 · answered by ? 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She sounds outgoing and flirtatious. Try flirting, laugh at guy's jokes even if they aren't really funny. Smile. Make fleeting eye contact then look down(for guys you don't know yet). Be yourself, i'm sure that's all you really need. GL
2007-01-17 19:11:56 · answer #5 · answered by Marsnandes 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She must have big breasts. Especially in school when there is not alot of big breasted women out there. Don't woory its not going to last once she gets older she will only become more heavy so enjoy it while u still can
2007-01-17 19:13:47 · answer #6 · answered by DVD 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A girl with confidence and/or fun to be around can be fat and still have lots of people that want to date her or be around her.
A thin pretty girl that is no fun and/or mean... ?? Why would a guy want to be around a girl like that ?? Waste of time.
2007-01-17 19:08:41 · answer #7 · answered by CTM 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
It depends on a special sense but not because girls who r fat will be liked by guys.Just accept the fate between you and your cousin.
2007-01-17 19:11:48 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't like fat chicks. Never have never will. She sounds like a jerk. Just do yourself a favor and stay away from her. People like that can not be trusted.
2007-01-17 19:08:39 · answer #9 · answered by Just trying to help 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's this undefinable something often called "charisma". It can have very little to do with appearance.
2007-01-17 19:13:53 · answer #10 · answered by John D 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋