I'm getting married tomorrow!?

Question

To a guy i just met yesturday....INSTANT SPARKS... Any last minute tips or helpful hints for my upcoming nuptials?

Answer 1

CONGRATULATIONS! I HOPE TO BE IN YOUR SHOES ONE DAY.....LOVE SENT YOUR WAY !

Answer 2

Questions Couples Should Ask (Or Wish They Had) Before Marrying

Relationship experts report that too many couples fail to ask each other critical questions before marrying. Here are a few key ones that couples should consider asking:

1) Have we discussed whether or not to have children, and if the answer is yes, who is going to be the primary care giver?

2) Do we have a clear idea of each other’s financial obligations and goals, and do our ideas about spending and saving mesh?

3) Have we discussed our expectations for how the household will be maintained, and are we in agreement on who will manage the chores?

4) Have we fully disclosed our health histories, both physical and mental?

5) Is my partner affectionate to the degree that I expect?

6) Can we comfortably and openly discuss our sexual needs, preferences and fears?

7) Will there be a television in the bedroom?

8) Do we truly listen to each other and fairly consider one another’s ideas and complaints?

9) Have we reached a clear understanding of each other’s spiritual beliefs and needs, and have we discussed when and how our children will be exposed to religious/moral education?

10) Do we like and respect each other’s friends?

11) Do we value and respect each other’s parents, and is either of us concerned about whether the parents will interfere with the relationship?

12) What does my family do that annoys you?

13) Are there some things that you and I are NOT prepared to give up in the marriage?

14) If one of us were to be offered a career opportunity in a location far from the other’s family, are we prepared to move?

15) Does each of us feel fully confident in the other’s commitment to the marriage and believe that the bond can survive whatever challenges we may face?

Answer 3

Make sure it's what you really want. Divorce is extremely expensive and it will screw up your credit majorly. I would say at least wait a week. You know it's true what they say about how you can never really know enough about somebody but wow 1 day. With all the hardships and increased criminal statistics over the past few years in our country, it's dangerous. I would hate to hear about you on the news tomorrow. So my helpful last minute tip to you is have a background check done. Or who knows maybe you could be the crazy one and he could be in the news tomorrow. lol! Good Luck and just be careful!

Answer 4

well if your really going to do this i suggest act quickly but do alot of talking. i knew the first day i met him that i would marry him but we still dated for 3 years. talk about future plans, education plans, finances, living locations, parental background. they say "the way a man treats his mom is the way he will treat you". make sure your family knows so no one feels left out or dismissed have a celebration party when you get home. definitely find out who and how many he's been with unless you don't care about being compared to ppl you don't know, find out why they didn't work, so you don't make the same mistakes. find out what he expects of you as a wife make sure it is compatible with your personality. i wish you luck in all your endeavors.

Answer 5

lovingdaddyof2s word's pretty much sum it up
for me!!!!!! " DON'T. Please don't. If it really is forever love, then take the time to get it right. I had those same relationships, that eventually faded until I found my wife of 12 years. Please slow down and think. "

I personally FELL in love w/ my fiance at first sight!!!! And he felt the same. But we waited, dated, and here we are, almost 3 yrs later, getting married next year.........Please wait sweetheart, get to know this man before you decide to literally give yourself to him,( legally, emotionally, etc.) There are many things you could find out that are downright outlandish of him to do/say in a very short amount of time. Give it a bit more time before leaping into something as serious as marriage.

Answer 6

This must be a joke. How can you arrange all the legal formalities in that time - apart from the madness of marrying someone you only just met.

Answer 7

Don't do it! It won't last! You don't know each other! You have not even built a relationship besides those based on looks. Divorce is not the answer to someone that gets married so fast!

Answer 8

heck, lose your way to vegas lmao. yeah, sparks and clark county woohoo. talked to a gal the night i was married. she was drunk in a short skirt and laughing with a lotta carefree movement and telling my pop and I "i'm getting married. and i just met him today (or last night)" then she'd laugh. at 1 time she even fell asleep. gawd was she filthy from sitting(lack of a better description) for hrs there. i think the county recorder wasnt in, and we had a need to see them.

married in "the little white chappel" with the drive thru, and rhoda played the organ. i used to have her little card. threw it out with the marriage, sorry rhoda.

Answer 9

Congrats!!!!!!! But it is always wise to think twice before you jump in coz a “marriage” is meant for ever and most nowadays don’t last very long. I hope you know him well and you both understand each other. Anyway best of Luck!!!!

Answer 10

Last minute tip? RUN!!! RUN AWAY!!! Why the HELL would you marry a guy you just met? Marriage is more important than this. You can just run into it. Marriage demands more respect than that.

Answer 11

Does not really matter anyways. From your rash behavior, I'm going to give your marriage four months and 24 days.