This question is for the ladies who said they were confuzed to a man?

Question

I recently got out of jail doing 6 months. My ex-wife recently called my moms house to see how i have been doing. She didn't know i was out, because we both thought i was going down for 3 to 5 yrs. thats why i got a divorce from her. I told her that she is to young to be sitting around she is going to be 21 in june. I unexpectantly called her back immediately. We hung out for a few days and had sex. She is currently in an abusive relationship at the moment. She told me the grass wasn't greener, she also called her current bf and told him i am outta jail bye. then when we where talkin she also said she wants to get married again 2 me. She also told me she was confused. I know she doesn't have anywhere to live except wit this other guy.Then when she was leaving she said her dad was giving her a ride. sge used my cell. After she left i was unsure so i looked on my phone and it was that dudes #. what do you think. She says she still loves me should i wait? I would die 4 her is it worth it?

Answer 1

If you only got a divorce because you didn't want to have her waiting for you while you were locked up and you still love her and want to be with her forever, then why nont go for it? Yeah maybe she called her man and didn't want you to know, but think about it-she cheated on her man with you. That's already gonna be some drama if and when dude finds out. Regardless of that, if she's THE ONE, then do what you gotta do to be with her as long as it's legit and she wants to be with you too.

Answer 2

I think you need to take it slow with her. Clearly, she's unstable as she's been in a relationship with an abusive man. Just continue to hang out with her until you can get a better sense of what's up with her. There's no rush, you out of jail for good, I hope. There's plenty of time for you two to get back together if it's meant to be.

Answer 3

try and wait, be patient let her realise u r there for him