get comfy 4 dis 1...
lets see in 05 had been married for3yrs.....my wife started a new job @ fridays a@ the mall.....basically the bit** cheated on me with 2 different co workers in marchand in may twice with one and once with the other but before that she got weird and was going out all the time getting stupid drunk takin drugs, antidepressents, birh control she got weird and emotionless
I found out in august when she didnt come home one night after going out as usual.
she went to one of the patrons house after getting done with work with a couple coworkers.
Basically i had brokedown and crying about hw she was so hammered she had gotten raped and possibly had sex willingly with another earlier that night be4 the rape she couldent really recall.
2 days after that confession she comes home from work crying again this time because aparantly the night she was raped she was blabbing her drunk mouth about the two she had cheated on me with and every1 knew about that at her work.she wanted to confess to me before i heard it in court if the rape casecame to that.
I forgave her and we arw still doing fine it still crosses my mind but i dont think she would have been making those decisions if she wasnt taking so many drugs at that time
2007-01-17 19:02:24
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answered by j917p 3
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My boyfriend does so much for me, he puts all of his wants and his needs aside to keep me happy he always makes sure I am feel ok with certain things before we do them, when I walk down stairs he always guides me down by holding my hand incase I trip, I have a mental illness and he sits through it all with patience and makes sure I am ok at the end of the night he does everything he can to keep me pleased (I always do my best to make him as happy and I always put him first also ) he always wants to buy me gifts and I recently read a conversation he had with a friend where he told them he would move across to the otherside of the world to work on a farm if it would make me happy, the amounts of things he does for me the amount of time he spends helping me when I'm tired he will carry me and put me to bed, he always tucks me in and kisses me goodnight if we are not sharing a bed that night depending on where we are, for over a month while he was not here at night he would ring me every single night never missing a night to sing to me before I slept ,my list of things he does could go on and on for days if this isnt real love I do not know what is
2007-01-21 04:09:30
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answered by Anonymous
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My BF makes me want to scream and yell, and rip both our hair out at times - and yet - he is very precious to me as a human being - and all of his contrasts and contradictions can sometimes take my breath away.
And if I can feel like that about this person - there has to be real love.
2007-01-18 02:51:43
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answered by freshbliss 6
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That depends a lot on one's definition of love. To me,it is when you care so deeply for someone that you would sacrifice everything about yourself, your material goods, your dreams, and even your very existence to ensure their happiness, their welfare or their safety, without asking or expecting anything in return, to share your life experiences with them and to share in their experiences, for good or for bad. To be willing to accept them as a unique and wonderful human being, despite their appearance, their status in life, their race color or religion, or any faults or habits that they may have, and no matter what to accept them unconditionally as an important part of your life, and when mistakes are made to forgive and to forget anything they may have done to spite or hurt you. That is a pretty tall order, but to me that is real love.
2007-01-18 03:11:18
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answered by ? 1
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My husband should of broken up many times and some of our more serious problems still plague us, but we love eachother enough to stick it out so we can be together. I call that real love.
2007-01-18 02:51:20
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answered by Tasha 4
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mmmm, maybe if ur lucky enough to find the right person, you'll know by her actions.
2007-01-18 02:49:34
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answered by laura k 2
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i love myself and my kids, period.
2007-01-18 02:50:02
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answered by Jacob Da omniscient 4
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