Dating my ex bf friend. He went to club with him. Was honest, when called out on it. I'm looking for ltr, he knows. Ex bf purpously asked him to go, I know. Do u think I'm dum? I'm mad, and new bf says he won't do it again. Can I believe him?
2007-01-17 18:45:17 · 7 answers · asked by elshay2 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
look lady, if your bf watches a lap dance, he does NOT necessarily indulge in sex with that girl - all he looked for is some entertainment - he still loves you if he finds enough passion in you.
Good luck.
2007-01-17 18:50:24 · answer #1 · answered by quilm 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hmmm.. if i were you, i wouldn't go out with someone that went to a strip club WHILE he has a girlfriend..
that's just stupid
and he should have asked for permission from you in the first place!
even if he knew that you wouldn't let him
i don't know if you should believe him and trust him
i think, as long as he's friend with your ex bf that's sort of a lunatic too (for asking out a guy [your bf] who's NOT single to a darn strip club, knowing that you would find out about it), you should be careful
let your bf know that it's gonna take some time and effort from him to bring back your trust in him
if he screws up again, to hell with him!
you don't need all that extra stress.. besides!
you go into relationships to be happy.. and not for becoming uber stressed out and bent on maybe exposing other deeds (future deeds) from your bf that's shady...
worrying about him doing another stunt like that is stressful enough.. so...
good luck girl! ;D
2007-01-17 18:59:35 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its okay as long as saliva didnt exchange!!! Dont trust your ex with him too many times though. But if I were you, forget it. As long as your current bf knows that you care for him and you want the relationship to progress. Other than that, forget it. If it bothers you that much. You can go to Chip N dales and get some lap dances too!!! HAHAHAHAHA
2007-01-17 18:49:40 · answer #3 · answered by sexykp78 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Would it be better if they were just $5? Why is your ex getting so close and chummy with the new guy? Sabatoge? Tell ex to take a hike and new guy to wise up. You're only dumb if you let the situation continue. Good Luck.
2007-01-17 18:51:22 · answer #4 · answered by mr.mister 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
THE RELATIONSHIP IS KIND OF NEW MAYBE HE DID KNOW HIS BOUNDARIES. I THINK YOU CAN TRUST HIM. SOME WOMEN DON'T MINE THAT THERE MAN GO TO THE STRIP CLUBS AND SOME DO. BY LETTING HIM KNOW THAT HE CAN'T DO THAT HE PROBABLY WON'T DO IT ANYMORE.
2007-01-17 19:00:35 · answer #5 · answered by raquel j 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well honey, it is ok for a bf to do anything, especially if he is a new one. be grateful he lets u to comtrol him. i wonder for how long
2007-01-17 18:51:00 · answer #6 · answered by jacky 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, believe him unless you know him to be a liar...
2007-01-17 18:48:29 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋