okay, Im being honest. I'm excited about my first date and NO IM NOT IN RUSH, but thank you for ur concern. My question is that if I feel like I know this could be the one, which I only have felt this way three times in my life, is it wrong in his eyes to have WILD ;) sex with him in my bed after our date Friday night? Cause Im already thinking that when Im that attracted to someone it just happens. We did spend 45 min talking and we just clicked
2007-01-17 18:45:13 · 13 answers · asked by laura k 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I think its true, wait a few dates and then do him, but I totally disagree with challenging a man intellectually. Thats retarded. (hehe) please! If your gorgeous, thin a good mom, have a nice car, house and ex and r a good person who believes in God u got him. U dont need to be a nerd (genius) go fly...genius. SOcrates lol
2007-01-17 19:00:14 · update #1
AS LONG AS U BOTH FEEL COMFORTABLE WIHT UT.JUSTMAKE SURE THE GUY IS ACTUALLY WORTH IT & NOT A ONE NIGHT STAND.
2007-01-17 18:51:23 · answer #1 · answered by MAIME 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
In order to pull this off, you have to be an over-confident woman. Women typically believe that if they "wait" then they will gain respect. These women get cheated on and left everyday. What you will have to do is intellectually and mentally gain his attention. Whatever happens in the bedroom will not matter. Remember, guys don't marry women b/c they save the @^^&T&. They marry women who challenge them, not sexually, but menatlly and in every way that excludes the bedrooms. If this wasn't so, then why are there so many affairs and divorces? B/c you can save it for marriage, and he may marry you but once he's got it, he's looking for something else. Just inspire him in other ways first, then throw it on him.
2007-01-18 02:54:32 · answer #2 · answered by precious girl 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't do it. You need to show better impulse control. If he's truly the one he'll wait. In fact, anytime I've been with a guy that didn't try to have sex with me on the first date, 100% of the time he turned out to be a good guy.
2007-01-18 03:01:59 · answer #3 · answered by ca belle 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
If you want to take the chance of him not respecting you and seeing you as a woman to only have sex with then yes, sleep with him on the first date.
If he's really "the one" or at least a ltr possibility then he will wait a little while before sex.
2007-01-18 02:51:29 · answer #4 · answered by lupin_1375 5 · 3⤊ 0⤋
I dont think it would be wise ot have sex with him on the first date. Contrary to belief, guys like the chase of having to get a girl. If you just hand him everything on a platter what is there to work for or discover?
2007-01-18 02:49:01 · answer #5 · answered by Rachel K 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You could do that BUT...think how amazing the sex would be if you waited a few months maybe? That would really be WILD;)
2007-01-18 02:51:15 · answer #6 · answered by beautylover 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It depends. You really dont want to give it to him too soon because he'll know what you have. You might want to wait and see if he is worth that few minutes of pleasure.
2007-01-18 02:56:16 · answer #7 · answered by sexykp78 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you really want to build something with the guy and you want him to respect you and see you as more than a booty call or easy, you should probably hold off :)
2007-01-18 02:52:13 · answer #8 · answered by obliviona 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Wow-you can do it; but I sure as hell wouldn't. As long as you feel it's no big-go for it.
2007-01-18 02:48:45 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have done it. It's probably not the bet policy.
2013-12-02 01:14:34 · answer #10 · answered by Michelle M 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋