Ok, i'm not really the dating type, but here it is:
Guy Number One: I've known him for a LONG time, and before, I've only thought of him as a friend, or brother. Now he's growing up, and I'm really starting to fall for him. I enjoy being with him, and I see him alot. People say he likes me, and I think he does too, but I don't want to make the first move. He's outgoing, but he's never really had a GF. I've noticed him looking at me... more than he used to. But he's younger than me, but that's ok, I can wait for him.
Guy Number Two: I met him at a summer camp and we were too shy to talk. A year later, I met his younger brother, with eventually led to me meeting up with him again. We've talked on the phone, emailed, IMed, and we've seen a movie together and met up a couple times. He's a very sweet guy, but I dont know him that well. We live 2 hours away. I'm sure he likes me, and he's only one year older than me.
Which one? Both are gorgeous, both are kind. But I'm not sure.
2007-01-17 18:01:05 · 19 answers · asked by ? 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I'm not looking for the perfect answer. I just want to know what others think of this situation. I'm capable of making a choice by myself. But I've come to a hard place.
2007-01-17 18:06:24 · update #1
If it is a situation where you can kinda play it out for a little while without getting serious or messy...I'd say do that. See who looks like they will really come through. If your looking for something more in the now, I personally think you should go with number one. That is, if you are looking for something more serious. He seems more long term and reliable than two. I really think that you should wait it out a little before really choosing if you can, though. Good luck! :]
2007-01-17 18:08:03 · answer #1 · answered by Amanda 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think a relationship is best built by a strong friendship either, but if you break up you don't want to ruin the friendship.. so it's difficult. I would go with Guy #1, and if it doesn't work out.. try Guy #2. He lives so far away he will never know about Guy #1. Good luck!
2007-01-18 02:08:10 · answer #2 · answered by natalie 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Which one do you enjoy spending the most time with? Which one do you see yourself growing old with? which one are you more comfortable with? It sounds to me that you "LIKE" not LOVE both of these guys equally, it's almost impossible to LOVE 2 guys, love is a feeling that cannot be explained in words, so i can't help you there. Ask yourself which one could you see marrying more? that's your first step..
2007-01-18 02:04:10 · answer #3 · answered by beth3988 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
First guy, you make the first move and you get that worry out. The second guy is probably only trieng to get in your pans, hes older than you. Take ur chances with first guy, it wont hurt to try
2007-01-18 02:13:14 · answer #4 · answered by alonesolodark 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think first guy never fits u in any means...though u know him for a long time he might be ur brother or ur friend...he can never become ur lover
so good luck!
i like ur way of aproach...i miss u a lot...i pray god to have a girl like u has my wife
2007-01-18 02:08:05 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
have a 3 Some lol
2007-01-18 02:05:32 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Why not get to know both of them a little bit better? Time will help you decide.
2007-01-18 02:05:23 · answer #7 · answered by JADE 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I would strongly advise against making this choice using Yahoo Answers... You already know which one you want, but for some reason you just want to hear someone say it...
2007-01-18 02:03:38 · answer #8 · answered by eldeeder 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
If you were in summer camp last year, you're too young for a long distance relationship.
2007-01-18 02:07:53 · answer #9 · answered by maigen_obx 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Why choose? Date them both.
2007-01-18 02:04:12 · answer #10 · answered by Mother of flute player 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋