bf of three years broke up with a week ago. 4 days before break up he said he loves me. today i talked to him and he said he doesn't love me or miss me or feel pain about me. we always had arguments and break ups before and i was always the one to admit faults, promise change and say sorry even when he has mistakes too. we would always get back together. but now he doesnt even want to talk to me anymore and says he;s moved on already. tried to argue and convince him to get back together but he won't. if i stop chasing would he come back to me? what else can i do to get him backt??
2007-01-17 17:36:07 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
It sounds as if you were in an unhealthy relationship. Why would you want to be with someone who always lets you take the blame when there's a disagreement? The best revenge is to move on. I know how hard it is, believe me! I've been there. But if you have a full, happy life you will benefit in two ways. One, you will be able to move on so that you can eventually be with someone who deserves you, and two, your ex bf will see how well you are doing! Hey, a little revenge isn't bad as long as it doesn't hurt anyone, right? :) It's OK to be sad and to miss him now -- you had 3 years together and that's hard to let go of. But do let go...and move on.
Aloha
2007-01-17 17:41:59 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-10-31 10:15:17 · answer #2 · answered by deliberato 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like you need to move on. Don't chase him... even if he was to get back with you after much chasing, he will just end up braking up with you again. You sound really young. I don't want to say naive because that may not be true. You may love him but it's not the end of the world. Move on and it will take time but you WILL find someone that will treat you better. I promise.
2007-01-17 17:44:09 · answer #3 · answered by forme2poopon73 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He probably found someone else who said that "I can treat you better than her." But remember it always hurt when a guy breaks u with you before you do. Its life. If you were the one to break it off with him, then he would be the one heart-broken, if any feeling at all. I am sorry but there are too many men on the entire planet that could treat you way better than he could. Heres a motto: After him, another guy comes along that will be way better than him. Thats my motto and I always believe it!
2007-01-17 17:43:11 · answer #4 · answered by sexykp78 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is over you need to move on before he files harassment or stalking charges on you. It seems from what you wrote that this guy is playing with you. he might even enjoy watching you grovel and beg. But if he has found someone else then I really don't think you can get him back. Try to find someone else. there are to many single people in this world you don't need to be worrying about this loser.
2007-01-17 17:43:53 · answer #5 · answered by rosiejac 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
and that's your mistake. if he was in the wrong, he needed to apologize and promise for a better change. not you. you shouldn't want him back, because you are better than that. why do you want a man if he doesn't want you? do you want him to be with you and cheat on you because he is not happy with you??? that's what you are asking for....for a man to be with you when he doesn't want to. obviously he is selfish and he needs some issues to work out and he doesn't need to work them out on your time. if he doesn't take responsibility for his wrongs, then he needs to be gone for good. if you guys have such a dramatic relationship where you fight all the time and you guys break up and get back together, then you guys don't need to be together. and if he is like that, you definitely don't need him. move on, and don't ask how you can get him back, because as i said, you can get something better
2007-01-17 17:41:17 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Why would you want to get back together with someone who obviously does not want to be with you? (I don't mean to say that in a mean way) It doesn't sound like he had any respect for you..you are better off without him! Someone great will come along and you'll be like...ex-bf who??? You'll forget about him (hopefully soon) and life will go on, and get better!!!
Best of Luck!
2007-01-17 17:41:11 · answer #7 · answered by michellecdnd 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Personally, I think you should forget him. It'll be hard but you'll move on.
This relationship didn't worked, why should it work this time? He doesn't sound like a nice guy.
Plenty of nice guys out there, believe me. I've been through what you went through and bagged myself an AWESOME guy! Trust me. Move on and get new guy.
2007-01-17 17:40:14 · answer #8 · answered by denimnatalie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would try your hardest to move on. Join club or take a class to take your mind off the breakup. It sounds like your relationship wasn't very healthy. You don't need to be with someone to make yourself happy.
2007-01-17 17:40:32 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
The worst thing you can do is chasing him or keep calling him and the best thing is to let the time handle it.
If you love someone, leave them alone, if they're really yours they will come back to you.
2007-01-17 17:43:16 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋