I know he likes me too but he is totally wrong for me.....I know he is the typical guy and likes all the stuff (sex, drinking, flirts constantly with everyone) that I dont find satisfying in a relationship. How do I stop liking him before it gets into something that I dont want?
2007-01-17 17:31:00 · 24 answers · asked by gcrowders 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Avoid him @ all costs. Think of all the negative things bout him. Look @ the big picture, what could happen if you don't forget about him. Being w/ him & possibly raising his child, being a single mom, w/ NO child support. I know what you mean cuz I've been there. If he ever leaves/moves, then the easiest thing to do would be to just not contact him @ all. I'd say maybe you could tell another girl bout this guy (then you could tell him that he has a gf) so that you have an excuse not to do anything w/ him but he'd prob wanna do anything w/ you anywayz by the sounds of it. The best thing is to stand your ground. Act like you're not interested. The guy who I was interested in was a cheating, lying, drinking, drug user who smoked & used girls. He wasn't good @ paying peeps back. @ least I was FINALLY able to get back the $30 that he owed me !!! He's like my sis..takes FOREVER to pay back !!! Maybe you should act like you hate him. Or just pretend like he's not even there if you can. If he notices that you're not acknowledging him, maybe he'll back off. Good luck girlie !!!
2007-01-17 17:38:50 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's into all the things that you just don't want in a guy. Sex is good as long as it's just with you but drinking and a constant wanting to flirt with everyone not a good combo and if you don't like it you wont be happy and he's most likely not going to change over night, or possibly never going to change. You can find the untypical guy the one who will respect you and not want to do those things because he has you in his life. As you grow you'll get disgusted with an imature guy like that. However, how do you stop likeing him? Well, it might take a while to actually stop likeing him as time goes by you'll just forget about him, might even meet somebody else who will help you with that. You have to leave him cold turkey....just like that. If you honestly don't see happiness and a stable relationship with him. Let it go, don't waste your time. I hope I helped.
2007-01-17 17:45:34 · answer #2 · answered by mda 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You're attracted to him physically and romantically. You already know he's bad for you. Concentrate on thinking about his bad qualities, especially the flirting with other girls part. That makes him a player. And if you go for him because of the challenge, then you're a player too. And who wants to admit to that? If that doesn't work, picture him taking a crap on the toilet. That should de-romanticize him if nothing else will.
2007-01-17 17:42:07 · answer #3 · answered by PDY 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have to first think to yourself what makes you attracted to him in the first place, and than compare that to all the negatives you don't like about him. Literally weighing the positives and the negatives will give you a good picture of who he is.
2007-01-17 17:40:18 · answer #4 · answered by Mark 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Set up your limitations and your borders. Set up your standards of what you want in a man and be firm in them. No waffling and no jello action. Be demanding in honesty and establish a code of ethics grounded in integrity. If you do these things, you will not get involved with men with 2 cent brains.
2007-01-17 17:37:59 · answer #5 · answered by Monsieur Rick 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well I think you should try to think of all the things that bother you about him and keep them in mind whenever you are around him. Try not to hang out with him as often and hang with new people. Convince yourself that he is wrong for you and that you don't really like him anyway.
2007-01-17 17:36:05 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Easy as pie...just stop...find someone else...trust me you don't want to be in a relationship with a guy like that... just stay away..you will forget him if he is out of your sight...try looking for someone new..
Good luck
2007-01-17 17:35:18 · answer #7 · answered by Natz 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Avoidance is a great tactic. Outta sight outta mind. Keep saying to yourself "It's about quality, not hormones"
2007-01-17 17:35:43 · answer #8 · answered by Brainiac 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
give yourself some space from him. surround yourself with friends and family who have a positive influence in your life. don't let the feelings that you now have for someone like that, to get you in a place where you feel heartbroken and worthless. give yourself more credit than that
2007-01-17 17:34:24 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Babe you need to distant yourself away for a bit limit ur contact
2007-01-17 17:36:20 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋