I have been noticing that Women now these day's are looking for men who have Good looks Loads of MONEY. But yet Men who may be on a fixed income for a reason medicaly or not but yet is not all that good looking. Is all left out in the cold.
So what is wrong with the picture as of why is it so hard for the female to try and get to know the guy for who he is on the inside and not his LOOKS or how FAT his Pocket Book is ? KNow wonder the Marraige rate is so low these day's.
It is like men will go out not only just to impress the woman/women for who he is and not what he has and all we get is hurt at the end very very badly. So yes it is a 2 way street. But any more it is like a one way street. Just because some of us men do not have good looks dose not mean we are bad people.
Besides how can some one make that kind of JUDGEMENT just by looking and say oh my God! this dude looks Demented. Well how do you know that for sure did you actually walk up to the guy to talk to him to find out
2007-01-17 17:11:30 · 13 answers · asked by ratlbones 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
hard to gauge- maybe good looks signal good genetics? maybe it's the halo effect of good looks? (as in, they look good, everything else about them must be good- hard working, nice, smart, etc.)
Either way, if men and women weren't shallow assholes, we'd still be stupid ugly cavemen freezing our asses off
2007-01-17 17:18:07 · answer #1 · answered by Matt 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You raise many issues. Guys do not have a good track record of talking about feelings, emotions, honesty and their own personal code of ethics if they have one. When you meet women, you have to be confident, engaging and charming. An attractive edge and a sense of humor helps. Do it as swiftly as possible, but don't overload.
Some women are simply looking for guys with million dollar bodies. They are very shallow, but they get these guys with the million dollar bodies, but don't realize that these guys have only a 2 cent brain.
I am on a fixed income because of a medical disability and I know of what you speak firsthand. I have a great time meeting women and can figure out the depth of their soul in about 60 seconds. It is sad to see some of them put their foot in their mouths. Mind you, getting to this point has not been easy and while my disability is not who I am, it has a habit of sometimes getting in the way. A woman of substance will not show you pity--she will show you understanding and respond to you as a man with deep feelings, sensitivity, and tsunami like emotions.
2007-01-18 01:32:54 · answer #2 · answered by Monsieur Rick 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I agree with you, its no wonder the divorce rate is so high. Both times I fell in love because I was really in love and neither men were models, (hardly!) and neither of them had a lot of money yet I still fall into the divorce thing. So...Dont stereotype...sure theres lots of women who can **** anyone cause they got a lot of money or women who only want cute Marios but Im sure there are real ones too. Just keep an open mind...ur princess will find u and hopefully u wont get divorced
2007-01-18 01:19:12 · answer #3 · answered by laura k 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Women cannot be criticized for something that men also do. Men love to see a woman who is attracive and has a good head on their shoulders. Men want a friend,lover,soul mate, wife, mother to their children, servant... so if men want it all why can't women look for the same. Whether people like it or not, looks is the first thing that the eyes see. So if you meet a girl who is only interested in your looks or or bank account then obviously she isn't for you, so go on and find the next girl.
2007-01-26 01:06:26 · answer #4 · answered by gotstobe06 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
OK this statement might put the women's movement back a little,,,but I think we want someone who can take care of us....I don't want money...I don't really like jewelry but what I do want is to know that he will always be there for me..and that we will always be OK....Yes I want the house, it doesn't have to be a mansion, I want the car, and I would love to go to the cottage or a holiday every once in awhile...who doesn't....In to days day..money says alot..but rest assured love will always say a whole lot more....
2007-01-25 20:58:24 · answer #5 · answered by beans 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I met my guy on line. I only saw a picture and a bit of him on cam. It wasn’t what he looked like that impressed me, but his sense of humor, kind heart and his intelligence. He won my heart with his kind words of encouragement and respect towards me. I didn’t know how much money he had, nor did I care about his looks. I fell in love with his heart. However, I am glad that I saw a picture of him. It was the kindness that showed in his face that allowed me to feel comfortable with his appearance.
There are women that like nice guys don’t give up hope.
2007-01-18 01:32:25 · answer #6 · answered by Golden Smile 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just call me old-fashioned. I don't care so much about the money and posessions. Although, I do want a guy who's responsible enough to at least hold a job. I take an interest in who the man really is. Just ask my boyfriend...if you could.
2007-01-18 01:19:56 · answer #7 · answered by Fulita 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
wow. that's really weird, because money never seems to be an issue. In fact, when they make too much, it seems to be an issue, because I feel like he does too much for me and especially now in the 21st century, we should be equals, not the woman still dependent on the guy.
2007-01-26 01:03:46 · answer #8 · answered by Janet 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Life is not about what you have but rather about who you are in your heart. If the women you know want a material life, they are not for you. A good one will come along ... be patient.
2007-01-18 01:15:59 · answer #9 · answered by daffodil 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
well im in the same boat im a on a fixed income and men find that a turn off,
2007-01-25 23:00:12 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋