Her and I have known eachother for 3 years, we've been dating for 4 months, and I can honestly say that I want to spend the rest of my life with her. My parents think it's stupid that I've found 'love' at such a young age (I'm almost 16).
I proposed the "can my girlfriend sleep over?" question at first and my mom almost said yes and my stepdad said "hell no". She did the same at her house and her entire family laughed in her face.
We are both upset our parents don't trust us, but now we've talked it over with eachother and out parents and they've decided to honestly think about it.
We would not have sex when she slept over. Just want to get that straight. No sex. She wants to feel the security she feels when she's in my arms when she goes to sleep and I actually want to wake up with her by my side. Sometimes I come over at 6 am just to fall back asleep with her. My parents say they need to talk to hers more.
What is your opinion on the situation?
2007-01-17 17:09:18 · 7 answers · asked by lapinx5j 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
no
2007-01-17 17:14:21 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Too young. You have many years ahead of you for sleepovers when you are older. Even if you don't plan on having sex or any kind of intimacy, I wouldn't recommend it. I know you want to be with her and feel close to her as she does with you, but spending the night won't prove any more to either of you how much you care about each other. Just enjoy your teenage years. I'm sure its a wonderful feeling to be there with her but if you two are meant to be then it doesn't matter where you lie your head down at night. When you get older you'll understand. Pretend you are a dad and think about what your reaction would be if your daughter wanted to spend the night with her boyfriend. Sure right now you would want to agree but believe me, years down the road you will see a whole other side of this. Hang out before bedtime.....
2007-01-17 17:22:49 · answer #2 · answered by alymarie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That's a tough one!!! If there's absolutely no sex... then I think I would say yes. The thing is... you're so young... when I was your age.. I thought I had found the "love of my life" and now I thank God for unanwered prayers!!!! You're gonna fall in and out of love, and I think that's what both of your parents are concerned about.... both of you getting too serious... too young.
2007-01-17 17:17:13 · answer #3 · answered by igiveall2002 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
aww that sounds large sweet that you spend such good quantities of intimate time jointly i say in case you, her and both mothers and fathers are comfortable with it then there's no project. some childrens mature faster than others (ahem i advise *teens* lol) each thing pertains to the way you your self view age and the barriers. no individual might want to inform you what age try to be to do something. in case your non secular then you definately have already got viewpoints on that matter. in basic terms make confident each thing is comfortable with you and her and your both waiting. goodluck next 3 hundred and sixty 5 days ;)
2016-10-15 09:41:08 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You gotta be kidding?!?! You can't even drive yet! As they say "Father knows best". The only way I'd even consider it is if she got Norplant and even then I'd still have doubts. And it doesn't really matter how long you've known each other.
2007-01-17 17:15:22 · answer #5 · answered by Brainiac 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You're not even 16 so no. You'll laugh at yourself in a few years for thinking you know what "love" is.
2007-01-17 17:32:13 · answer #6 · answered by BereaGirl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She wants to feel the security ? lol
2007-01-17 17:16:14 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋