my fiance had cheated on his wife who is now his ex wife,i am with him now and he said he would never cheat on me because i make him happy,he said he was unhappy with her and that she never gave him attention could he be telling me the truth??? i am the first girl who he has ever loved this much...
2007-01-17 16:54:54 · 9 answers · asked by happybunnyjg 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
happybunny or what ever you like to be called
people are all different and by not knowing this guy, there is absolutely no way of knowing if he is being truthful
because to say one way or another would be to say he is a cast mold but in reality he is a person... complex, independant, unique and free in mind and action
2007-01-17 17:00:04 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Cheating is cheating; your questions bring about more questions.
How did you find out? Is he trying to convince you to trust him? A man that realizes he made a mistake will try his best to keep it a secret. What happens to you when you can’t keep him happy or you can’t show him the attention he desires when you have children? When he cheated, did he tell the other women she was the first girl who he has ever loved this much? I think it’s obvious you're asking for answers here because you already have doubts, His past is what made him what you like, but do you think that he can go out of town or work late without you wondering if he’s with someone else? It seem to me this marriage is on the rocks before the I do’s. I'm not saying do or don’t, but I see four reasons in your question as to why you shouldn’t get married, (he was unhappy, never gave him attention, cheated, and your doubt.) and only one as to why you should. (You want to be happy) I have seen many marriages fail because of doubt, lies, and deceit.
My wife and I have been happily married for twenty years and I know people that’s been married even longer, the things we have in common are trust and love and realizing it’s not always going to be happy and all the attention you once had to yourself has to be shared with you children.
2007-01-18 02:33:16 · answer #2 · answered by D.B. Cooper 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't know, sounds pretty shaky...
All the other 'cheaters' I've known told each wife they had the same thing, only to break their promises- hey kind of like the U.S. goverment and the Native American population what the hell now I'm off on a tangent
Conclusion: keep a vulture's eye on this guy, you'd probably be better off just leaving him before he hurts you too
2007-01-18 01:02:27 · answer #3 · answered by Matt 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be careful with that because most guys never change after they have cheated. He maybe really telling the truth just be careful. Once a cheater always a cheater.
2007-01-18 01:01:44 · answer #4 · answered by chinquittia_john18 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your words clearly says what it is .. your fiance "cheated" on his wife. If he can cheat one, he can cheat others as well. The remaining all is just hoax. If at all you are looking for good life, get good stuff. Why a cheater ..?
2007-01-18 01:09:54 · answer #5 · answered by Manjunath V 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
To me Once a Cheater Always a Cheater
2007-01-18 01:04:25 · answer #6 · answered by missy 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Make sure it's not all about him.; YOu have needs too. However, yes, the can be loytal, as long as he realizews problems do normall occur and have to be worked out.
2007-01-18 01:00:49 · answer #7 · answered by Legandivori 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm sure he told his ex the same thing.
2007-01-18 00:59:45 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
meh. hes a guy, hes probably lying
2007-01-18 01:00:24 · answer #9 · answered by Mayonaise 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋