2007-01-17 15:31:18 · 12 answers · asked by sunshine2507 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Apparently some people don't know what MAY/DECEMBER means? A younger person in a relationship with an older person. May being younger than December! Generally a greater age gap than 15 years.
Rarely works. The age gap is just a tremendous hurdle. Too much work. Someone always feels less attractive as time goes on.....
Age will eventually show on us all. And it is more than beauty/handsome that effects a May/December relationship. Common goals and interests, sex drives change for us all. December may have children as old as MAY.
Age differences DO matter. Some will have examples of the very few that have worked. Best to stick to a mate that will still be alive when YOU are 60 or 70. A partner is a life time mate. Not someone that won't be here in 20 years.
There are a million scenarios. You will chose what best suits you no matter what anyone says. But pay heed to the advice you have asked for!
2007-01-17 15:43:48 · answer #1 · answered by Anna M 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I've been in one of those and it all depends on if there is chemistry between the two people. Age is definitely a determining factor in those kinds of relationships. But if you are willing to accept the good with the bad and so on, then I don't see why it wouldn't. A relationship is a relationship, no matter how many time you flip it over, it will always be what it is.
2007-01-17 15:37:07 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is nothing special about the months. It is just that you meet more people at certain periods. For a romance - or for that matter for any relationship to last - other factors have to be at work- commitment, sincerity and not the least-the extent to which you can exercise your charm.
2007-01-17 15:36:51 · answer #3 · answered by Traveller 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Yes, they can work and they do last. Just be sure to put a lot of June and July through November in there to be safe. In other words, meet in the middle and be versatile, as you must be in other relationships. No hitting below the belt, though: no old jokes or immaturity snide remarks, you know. My best friend just celebrated her 10th wedding anniversary. Her and her husband have 3 happy kids and are 17 years apart, he's older.
2007-01-17 15:35:24 · answer #4 · answered by Sleek 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
December? Isn't that like 80? I don't think the equipment is even supposed to work by then.
2007-01-17 15:37:48 · answer #5 · answered by GoodGuy53 5 · 0⤊ 2⤋
Depends on if the money lasts.
2007-01-17 15:33:52 · answer #6 · answered by Liz 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
It depends on what each person is wanting from the relationship.
2007-01-17 15:36:10 · answer #7 · answered by Daiquiri Dream 6 · 1⤊ 1⤋
i hope so my lady is a lot younger than i am --- if you sit down talk out and resolve problems and keep falling in love then it should last
2007-01-17 15:37:08 · answer #8 · answered by Waterdragon 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
what does the calender have to do with romances
2007-01-17 15:33:44 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
JUST LIKE ANY OTHER ROMANCE....SOME LAST....SOME DONT
2007-01-17 15:33:46 · answer #10 · answered by goldie 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋