How come every christian girl Ive known goes for the bad boys?
2007-01-17 15:30:52 · 16 answers · asked by Ronald D 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
the reason christian girls like bad boys because all of there life they are around god good good so when that bad rebel comes its real exiting for them because they never experienced that before.
2007-01-17 15:38:25 · answer #1 · answered by J 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Honestly, I think it is because we see something in them that we're missing in ourselves, you know? That sense of adventure, daring, reckless "I don't give a d*** what you think" attitide intrigues us and draws us in to them. For example, my personal goal is to marry Peter Pan (not the actor, even though he is incredibly amayzing! <3) the character. He is mischievous, free-spirited and kinda spoiled, although since he is always a child he retains his youthful innocence. Aside from the innocent part (haha) he is everything I am not. He ran away from his parents because they were planning his life; my friends tell me I'm a goody-goody (they're right-- dang it!). If you up his intensity level, he's really not far from being a "bad boy." So, I don't know. Each girl is different, but those are my thoughts on us in general. I hope they helped!
Oh, and if you're a nice guy who's thinking of turning into a "bad boy" to get more chicks, please don't. We really do love you just as much...it just might take us a little longer to figure it out =)
2007-01-18 06:33:38 · answer #2 · answered by Ask Shirley 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Know what? Its just the Cute and Hot guys that are generally the bad ok...so these days gals are attracted to these fellas...The not so good looking guys are generally nice and kind and all but what the hell the hardest thing in the world is for them to get a gal. Its not religion, gals just look at hotness and cuteness thats the real prob.
But there may also be some cute hot guys who maybe good.
2007-01-17 15:46:12 · answer #3 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I am from India and have noticed that Christian girls normally run for money. They are good looking and smart, with liberal parents who do not object staying out late if the boy has money.
On the other hand the christian boys here are school dropouts.. totally useless - not good husband material.
So you cannot blame the girls they are only looking for a good future for themselves and in the bargain get short changed.
2007-01-17 15:42:53 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋
your going against everything your family belives and the way u were brought up u dont want to be known as ms goody to shoes u want to reble againt your family and date bad boys because your family wants nothing but good boys for their daughters and who wants to date any one mom and date thinks is a nice boy you want the bad boy the dangerous boy . you dont want them to tell u whats right or wrong or even tell u what to wear or fix your hair u want that excitement not the boreing type boy that has no danger for u
2007-01-17 15:39:44 · answer #5 · answered by gottobetheone2003 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let me start by saying I am a twenty-three year old Christian married (almost two years now) male. It would seem that non-Christian males like the whole goodie goodie appearnce of Christian girl and would love nothing more to draw them away from Him.
2007-01-17 15:38:48 · answer #6 · answered by cowboysfan4lyfe 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Paula Abdul said it best... Opposites attract. Ohh buddy have you ever dated a "bad girl"? Let me tell you something, my friend, it's great. Simple as that, For me personally, I tried dating Good chicks but have found it redundant because I'm a good man. Bad chicks are awesome! Oh and if you want a good chick you have to be a bad boy. Or if your a good guy like me, you can refer to it as covert ops were you act bad but are really good, really have to do your research for this one though. Then you realize that Good and Bad are just relative generalized terms and that they can be the same thing. Well generally anyway. Best point of advice, try to talk to everyone you ever know and everyone you don't know and realize that chicks just want a smart man. Good&Bad, understanding, pays attention, and knows how to please them, and knows how to talk to them. Practice makes perfect..
2007-01-17 15:42:02 · answer #7 · answered by GuitarJammer 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Guess what??? I'm a Christian girl and I don't like bad boys...I go for good Christian boys. :) Yay...now you know a Christian girl who doesn't like bad boys!!! How exciting!!!
2007-01-17 15:35:20 · answer #8 · answered by em<3 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
You know the wrong Christian girls.
2007-01-17 15:34:23 · answer #9 · answered by Liz 7 · 1⤊ 1⤋
To be honest I'm a christian and I have noticed that too. But I believe that it is because the girl gets too caught up in finding a cute guy that she forgets to be careful with her choice. I don't know if my opinion helps, but I'm awfully glad to help.
2007-01-17 15:37:38 · answer #10 · answered by cool2bcourt 1 · 1⤊ 1⤋