PLEASE BE NICE!EVERYONE IS A JERK NOW A DAYS,DONT ADD TO THAT COUNT!Heres my question,this guy I love,I mean love,started flirting with me,and I think he wanted to be more than "Friends".Then he gets asked out,and he accepts. :( Well anyways,I still caught him looking at me even though he had a girlfriend,almost every day,but now,for about a month,I hardly ever catch him,which makes me feel as though he's over me.But one day,about a week ago,we had to do this playing test(playing scales on an instrument in front of the whole band) as individuals,and when I got done,people started clapping,but he was the only one who stood up and clapped.That day,out of like 35 people,he only stood up and clapped for 5 of us,2 guys,his girlfriend,his girlfriends best friend,and then me.I was seriously the odd ball out.I could see why he stood up if we were super close,but were not,we dont talk much anymore.What do you think?Is he over me
2007-01-17 15:26:05 · 12 answers · asked by Baby<3Britt 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I guess so, as much as I want to say the thing you really want to hear, i think that would just be unfair for you. One thing, she's with his girlfriend and that leaves no more space for you, right? Anyways, heads up, there are a lot more fish in the sea... surely you'll find the one....
2007-01-17 15:31:38 · answer #1 · answered by keyanato 1 · 1⤊ 1⤋
I think he might still be a little interested. Try looking at him some. Maybe he never thought you were interested before. Neither of you are married. You know the saying "All's fair in love and war". I stayed away from a guy I liked once because he had a girl. Now, yrs. later, I find he liked me too. It was a big mistake. I should have gone for him. Don't let life pass you by. Reach out and grab it.
2007-01-17 23:36:33 · answer #2 · answered by crazywoman88 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First off, you wasnt a couple so he could date who he wanted to. Also, he stood up because before all of this drama occured he was a friend.
Everyone has a fear of rejection but I think you should let him know how you feel.
2007-01-17 23:33:03 · answer #3 · answered by gloried 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think so, just enjoyed your performance that time. He like you but it probably didn't seem like you liked him back (boys can be dumb and not always get our signals). When he thought you weren't interested he went out with someone else. It's okay, learn a lessons from this, boys are dumb so and next time be more agressive, not all over him, that's not good, but if you like him show it.
2007-01-17 23:34:26 · answer #4 · answered by vampire_kitti 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
same thing happened to me this guy in p.e. always flirted with me until he switched out now we never talk but just remeber never to loose touch because its better to be friends with him than just be aquintances plus if you were friends you have a better chance guys are hard to become friends with especially if they have a different group of friends that you dont talk to i dont know if you do or not but im just sayin i would say yes and no yes if you remain not to talk to him anymore no if you do talk to him.
2007-01-17 23:34:29 · answer #5 · answered by RuKuS 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ok... I'm a jerk, and I'm already part of the count.. but I'm try and be "tactful"...
Screw him... what's in it for you; nothing. He's either mocking you, or he's interested in you for at least friendship.
If I was you, I'd just ignore him; act like he's not even there... When/if he talks to you, just be short with him and move on.
2007-01-17 23:33:41 · answer #6 · answered by sgtgregg 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Yes hun, he's moved on. Its taken me a few months to find a new guy, but give it some time and hopefully, you'll move on... it was REALLY hard 4 me, and I didnt know what to do... I still like my ex, but now, I like plenty more guys!
2007-01-17 23:31:00 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
No. I think he still likes you. Maybe if you just don't try so hard and be yourself, he'll make a move. Hope it works out. You sound nice.
2007-01-17 23:32:24 · answer #8 · answered by vega868 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Pin him down and kiss and dry hump him when you get a chance.. You know he ants it!!!........
Or you could (and this is my advice) Do suttle little things to show him you are interested, flirt with him, see what his reaction is... Im sick of everyone being all
"Dont go near him he has a gf"
**** that!!! Go for it
2007-01-17 23:34:39 · answer #9 · answered by Dr Pink Puppy 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Wow, what a crush. Just keep your distance for now...he knows you are still there for him and you will diffenetly be on his mind when he and his girlfriend are over.
2007-01-17 23:29:56 · answer #10 · answered by sealguy77 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋