and he was very popular and i went out with him for 2 or 3 weeks and this was like a month ago when he broke up with me.
he broke up wit me cause he wanted to have sex with me and i said no i'm to young for this(i'm 13 years old) and he's like how r u to young for this i said i'm not ready to have sex with u!
and then when i said that he broke up with me and i didn't get sad or anything cause right after that andother cute guy asked me out and he's 1 of his friends and were still goin out!(i love him!)
the question is...
is it to early for me to have sex with a guy?
(i'm 13)
2007-01-17 15:01:13 · 14 answers · asked by sara 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I know this sounds like a bum out answer, but I mean, I think it changes from person to person. If a person feels it's right to do so, they should do it, no matter the age. Although I feel like 13 is really, really early and you should first know basic information about sex and what can happen, I think it's up to the person to decide. But my opinion personally is that 13 is too young.
2007-01-17 15:05:44 · answer #1 · answered by ishuken 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The question is do you think it's too early? I'd say without a doubt yes! This is something big and also something that if it does happen too early then later on in life you'll find yourself regreting it and beating yourself up over it. Besides no one at that age is ready to face the consequences of getting an STD or even worse a baby! (actually there are some STDs that make a baby seem like nothing- like HIV which could lead to AIDS!) Something like that could change your life forever. But anyways I congratulate you on making the decision not to have sex!!!!
2007-01-17 23:08:00 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you have to ask yourself if you're ready, than you're definitely now. i'm almost 17 and i was best friends with my current boyfriend for 2 years, and than after 6 months into our relationship did we have sex for the first time. you should have no doubts WHATSOEVER in you're mind and you shouldn't be embarrassed or afraid to tell anyone. also 13 is young. i'm not saying 16 is much older, heh, but sex is something you want to wait until that perfect moment for.
2007-01-17 23:05:45 · answer #3 · answered by coloredpencils 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well...I'm 13 too...and I've had sex with my boyfriend about two months ago...
and girl, I kinda regret it....so I suggest to wait a couple of years..
2007-01-17 23:06:42 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
While I don't believe that people should really put "age labels" on things, I think that you made a good decision. You aren't ready, and you asserted yourself. It makes me glad seeing that at least one girl doesn't act like a pansy all the time.
2007-01-17 23:06:23 · answer #5 · answered by John C 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
oh god yes, you're way too young. you shouldnt have sex with anyone just becuase they want you to, which im glad u didnt let him. before you ever start to have sex, think about this. what will i do if i end up pregnant? how will my family take it and will i regret it if he break up with me afterward. and always use protection.
2007-01-17 23:08:17 · answer #6 · answered by julie c 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That is a question only you can answer. The law says no but if you feel that you are in love then do it but remember you can not take it back
2007-01-17 23:05:30 · answer #7 · answered by Ying Yang 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I would say that you are. You have plenty of time to do that. Enjoy being young and having fun.
2007-01-17 23:06:53 · answer #8 · answered by Melinda 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just abit to young
2007-01-17 23:38:44 · answer #9 · answered by cypress2303 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2007-01-17 23:03:22 · answer #10 · answered by thank you come again 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋