My first love has a boyfriend and isn't happy.She treats me more like her boyfriend then this guy. I walk her home and buy her gifts like for her birthday and christmas. Now she is all mad cause i am talking and dating other girls. Is it wrong for me to go out with other girls. Should i be a groupie and wait for the call when she decides we should be together? I never felt this way about anyone else and for me to see myself without her is hurting me.. but I can't wait all my highschool years or longer.
2007-01-17 14:57:32 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Thats the cutest thing I have ever read!! Tell her how you feel.. and that you can't wait any longer for her if she isn't going to make an effort for you, so you must move on.
2007-01-17 15:01:32 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
its not right for her to get mad if she has a boyfriend who should be doing all the things that your doing..but i don't think she's really angry at YOU i think she's angry at herself for allowing that guy to treat her badly (if he is) but don't feel sorry for her because only SHE let it happen this way not anyone else, and she's taking it out on you because she doesn't have the guts to break it off with her bf and be with a great guy like you..and i don't think you should let her use you in that way..so its kinda going both ways because you do those things for her in the first place and it contradicts your feelings..i say give her an ultimatum and tell her if she wants someone to continue to care about her the way you have then she would have to pick..but by all means keep your options open and tell her she can't tell you who to date because your single..and you never know you might find someone who is worthy of being cared for that way..because whoever you end up with in the end, you deserved them in the first place...good luck!
2007-01-17 15:08:21 · answer #2 · answered by gemstone2421 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe she want's you to make a move to show your interest on her. I believe by her having a boyfriend is one way of covering up her true feelings towards you. Don't let yourself be used....as she can do that since she knows that you're interested on her. Let her be the one who will iniate that move....and your life will be happy.
2007-01-17 15:02:08 · answer #3 · answered by jad 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She's just afraid of losing your friendship and attention. She's missed the boat. Get on with your life You deserve true love and she's not it.
2007-01-17 15:08:54 · answer #4 · answered by tgirl50 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
TALK TO HER!! Tell her you want to break up with her current bf. She isnt happy anyways and it sounds like you love her and care for her. Tell her she should be with you. Why is she with that loser when she could be with you?
2007-01-17 15:01:13 · answer #5 · answered by . 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Date other girls. You need to break away. She can't have you at her beck and call, especially when she has another BF.
If she gets angry with you, tell her to deal with it.
2007-01-17 15:03:39 · answer #6 · answered by kiwi 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell her to commit to you . If she can't do that you have to move on.
She is using you as a crutch to supplement what she is missing in her relationship and its not fair to you
2007-01-17 15:08:23 · answer #7 · answered by Fortytipper 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ahh....don't get yourself involed in such a sticky situation, especially if this other guy is an ***hole.
If you must be witn her, i'd say you just wait until they break up.
2007-01-17 15:03:15 · answer #8 · answered by Brian is weird 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you have to live and go on with your life, yea she has feelings for you, and you have feelings for her, but the fact is that she has a man, now, if she is not happy with him, then she should break it off and be with you, but if she is not going to do it, she has to let you go and let you be happy with someone who is free.
2007-01-17 15:01:20 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
hi, thats an interesting question! lol! 20/F wondering the same thing... holla back
2007-01-17 15:00:12 · answer #10 · answered by Augustina S 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋