in the past my boyfriend got caught sending e-mails to other girls while we were together, I recently discovered his password to his account but now I can't stop checking it, I haven't found anything in a long time but I still don't know how to stop...help!
2007-01-17 14:44:33 · 15 answers · asked by Alicia 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I am guilty of the same thing once in awhile. I don't know exactly how you feel, but Its like im paranoid that something will slip right by me without me knowing. But if I look, I will always know whats going on. Problem with that is the more you do it, the more paranoid you become. Its like a vicious addicting cycle.
2007-01-17 14:49:07 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well.. it can be a hard thing to do, but you have to remember that it is his emails and he has the right to privacy.. Now just because he is sending emails to other people does not mean that he is cheating on you, they can be just friends.. I would suggest that you need to work on trusting him, getting over your jealousy, he is with you, and stop trying to make a problem.. What will he do if he finds out, or what if he changes his password? are you going to be mad?
So I would suggest STOP and talk to him..
2007-01-17 14:52:22 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds to me like that is time so that you may %. up and bypass on. do not waste any more effective of your powerful existence in this guy that"s dropping his time attempting to attain women that are out of his attain. provide him an ultamatum, that is me, or your fantacy females. If he chooses them, then you definately have lost no longer something, that you hadn't lost already.
2016-10-15 09:35:09 · answer #3 · answered by silvi 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I completely understand!! I was the same way! my boyfriend sent messages to other girls and i couldnt stand it. he is a big flirt and i started getting so paranoid that he's gonna cheat on me. so i obtained his password and went on all the time. I think it's okay if he gives you reason to be suspicious...but if he's changed, i think you should start trusting him.
2007-01-17 14:50:34 · answer #4 · answered by Elysse 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
...Uh.
Ask him to change his password
Or just stop worrying
Ok, so he might do it, but remember if he does do something eventually HE WILL GET CAUGHT, hiding something is very difficult
or give him your password
Then it would be like an equal trust thing
2007-01-17 14:48:34 · answer #5 · answered by Nohaymanana 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you need to talk to him. don't necesarily tell him you're checking his e-mails but just let him know that you're still having trust issues. don't let him get defessive about it either because he was the one that messed up in the past. tell him you want to trust him and he probably has been trustworthy lately but let him know you still have issues from the past. if you can't get past it, you need to move on from him because if you can't rebuild the trust, the relationship is doomed no matter what
2007-01-17 14:47:52 · answer #6 · answered by Amanda 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can't. It's human nature to be curious about such things, and when it's as easy as a few mouse clicks, forget about it lol.
2007-01-17 14:52:11 · answer #7 · answered by NoName113 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Actually Id like to help but I dont blame you for wanting to look. You dont trust him so maybe you should just end it.
2007-01-17 14:48:05 · answer #8 · answered by Dovahkiin 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He probibly knows your looking at his mail so you should check his mobile phone.
2007-01-17 14:49:22 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just delete his email account.
2007-01-17 14:47:43 · answer #10 · answered by Mr. Smooth 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋