I;ve been trying to figure out why I like this guy so much. his looks arent that attractive and isn't the type i would usually go for. he's a funny and is nice to me, but his personality doesn't even exhibit qualities that I find admirable. everytime i am away from him, i think and know for sure that I do not like him but when I see or talk to him the feelings come back. i hate feeling this way and wish it would go away. any suggestions or explanations as to why i could like someone that i totally wouldn't usually go for?
2007-01-17 14:37:45 · 16 answers · asked by Luciya 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
sometimes the unknown intrigues us so much...u may be ready for a change in several areas of your life...so go for it...and maybe change some other things tooo....good luck...
2007-01-17 14:41:26 · answer #1 · answered by Tikcus 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you were probably just stuck in a boy rut. if you were dating the same kinds of guys over and over, you might have subconsciously wanted a new kind of guy. obviously he has some good qualities if he makes you feel that way when you're around him. don't try to fight it so much and maybe you'll find out more about him and you two may have more in common then you ever knew, even if you think you know a lot about him right now.
2007-01-17 22:43:12 · answer #2 · answered by Amanda 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Haha...I used to have the exact same thing with this guy. Like down to the tee.
When I wasn't around him i was positive that i didn't like him. Then as soon i was around him i was sure that i liked him. It used to annoy the hell out of me coz I couldn't work out what i wanted. And now we're going out.
I realise now that i like him because he was so determined to have me. Like i did lots of wrong things to him and he'd always still wanted to be around me...even if i didn't want to be around him. So i don't know if your guy is the same as mine...but that's my reason.
2007-01-17 23:23:46 · answer #3 · answered by K8tgry 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well you seem to like something about him---why worry so much about it? It isn't uncommon for this to happen---It may or may not ever become apparent but it is normal---just be nice in case you decide to date him---
2007-01-17 22:43:51 · answer #4 · answered by fire_inur_eyes 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sometimes the most opposite of people are attracted to each other. nothin you can really do about it
maybe there somthing about his personallity, has somthing you find atractive but you are in denial of it
it depends...
2007-01-17 22:44:55 · answer #5 · answered by Brian is weird 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i dont know let m eknow when u figure it out b.c i got the same problem except were already going out
2007-01-17 22:40:31 · answer #6 · answered by carebear_destroyer 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hi, thats an interesting question! lol! 20/F wondering the same thing... holla back
2007-01-17 22:41:20 · answer #7 · answered by Augustina S 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i know wat u mean. well, theres no explanation in liking sumone. its jus like a bond i guess. u rpolly enjoy the moments w/ him, and force urself 2 not like him wen hes not there. but wen he is, the emotions run bak 2 u. =\
2007-01-17 22:42:10 · answer #8 · answered by .:♥JiZzOnE nDa HiZzAy♥:. 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it's called being crazy and it's very common among young women
2007-01-17 22:41:11 · answer #9 · answered by stinkypinky 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe you're just bored or you found something in him that made a just spark inside. maybe you just want something out of your norm
2007-01-17 22:44:28 · answer #10 · answered by Elysse 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋